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Fun Ways To Enjoy Sex Toys
By Adrie Santos
Think that sex toys are strictly for some in and out solo play? Boy have you got a lot to learn!! Never mind all of the options in terms of the types of toys available, but the all of the ways that you can use your sex toys will blow your mind! Whether you’re looking for a little solo-time or some added spice for your fun a deux or even trois; read on for awesome ideas on sex toy usage that will leave you wanting more…
One of the greatest things about sex toys are the reaction that they manage to get out of people—from shocked gasps to laughter to raging erections! Surprising someone with a toy can is a great way to add a little zest to any day or even be beneficial in terms of opening the lines of communication when they’re down in a relationship. Give a cute sparkly vibrator like the Glitter Gel Playmate to your best friend who likes a little bling or even an inflatable doll (my personal fave is the Construction Man doll!) to a friend who is newly single or going through a break up to put a smile on her face in and out of the bedroom! Slipping a naughty little gift into your lover’s briefcase or gym bag is a great way to not only pleasantly surprise them, but also to make it quite clear what’s on your mind and on the menu for the evening! Along the same lines; shopping for toys with your mate whether online or in a store can be a highly enlightening experience where you get to learn all kinds of things about what turns your mate on. Settle in for a cozy night on the couch with your laptop and our endless array of toys and talk about what turns you on and see how quickly things heat up!
You may be one of those people who still views sex toys as being for solo-play or even be embarrassed to admit to your partner that you do on occasion indulge in a little one-on-one time with your body. Sadly, as far as we have come over the years; the whole masturbation-is-dirty mentality still manages to make its way into some people causing feelings of shame or guilt. Self pleasure though is nothing to be ashamed of and the sooner you can realize this, the sooner you can begin to truly know your body and how to get pleasure not only on your own but from another person as well. Another interesting fact is that most men admit that watching a woman pleasure herself is a huge turn on! So you timid ladies that hide your toys in the depths of the closet in fear that they will be found—listen up! Why not surprise your partner (and yourself) by bringing those toys out of hiding when they are home? As your lying next to your man, reach for your favorite vibrator and begin to work your magic allowing him to enjoy the show until you’re ready for him to join in? Still too shy? Then why not reach for the camera at the same time as your favorite vibe or dildo and snap a pic or two of your solo-act for a little show and tell? Take a pic with your phone and text it to him mid-day for a sweet surprise! Or why not email it to him while he is on the computer in the other room? Within seconds he’ll be right there at your beck and call and ready to please you! You’ve heard the term “monkey see, monkey do”—this is not to say that men are monkeys of course, but the term does ring true in the sense that it is easier to learn something when you get to see it. By pleasuring yourself in front of your partner; you can teach them how to pleasure you best which will make sex better than ever!
Thanks to the creation of hands-free toys and remote controlled vibrators; sexing up even the most otherwise boring outings is now possible. Got a long commute to work? A pair of Vibrating Panties or a strap on clit-stimulator like The Butterfly can make the long drive or even train ride better than any other! Just turn it on, sit back and let your mind wander to luscious places and see where your imagination and vibes take you! Having a night out with your mate? Put on a remote controlled vibrator like the Remote Controlled Arouser and give him all the control—literally! Just imagine being at his mercy in your favorite restaurant or at the theatre. He may never complain about being dragged to the ballet again!
Sex toys can also be used for more than just pleasure believe it or not and are actually encouraged for therapeutic purposes. Toys like the Kegelmaster 2000 or Ben Wa Balls are made to help strengthen your Kegel muscles which are beneficial not only for sex, but during pregnancy and later in senior years as well. Massagers like the infamous Hitachi Magic Wand can be used for massage and healing as well as sensual play. And for men; vibrating cock rings (The Cock Rocker is a GREAT one!) are not only for increased pleasure for you and your partner but also work in helping to prolong an erection as do penis pumps like the Supra Pump that can assist someone who for whatever reason has trouble achieving or keeping an erection.
The benefits of using sex toys are as endless as the supply we carry and well worth looking into whether you are on your own, with a partner or enjoying action as a part of a threesome, foursome or more-some! Use them to surprise your mate or even yourself! If variety is the spice of life then we are sure to have what you need to spice things up for years to come and help keep your sex life alive and well. Discover the many uses for sex toys and enjoy the exploration along the way…
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