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I've written about anal play on a few occasions now and even touched on the topic of bum play for guys. After giving it a little more thought, I think it's time to really dive in and cover all you need to know about introducing your guy into the wonderful world of backdoor fun.

I know that a lot of guys cringe at the idea of having anything slipped into their butt, but truth be told; a little bum action on a guy can feel incredible, if approached with care of course. So the goal of this week's blog? To give you a few tips that will help you get your guy started on some super-hot bum play and open up a whole new world of orgasmic fun that'll have him screaming your name like never before!

Getting' Started

Tread carefully. You can be sure that your guy is bound to be a little gun shy at first if this is his first experience with anal play, so from the moment you bring it up to the second that you begin; you need to move slowly, gently and carefully to avoid bruising anything from his body to his sex drive!

Use lube'lots of it! This is a super tight and super sensitive spot we're talking about so lube will help to make things go as smoothly as can be! Use it on your finger or small anal toy as well as the anus.

Have a bath. I suggest this for a couple of reasons. First it'll help him to relax and second, being as clean as can be will help with any fears that either of you may have regarding the cleanliness issue since this is a guy's ass we're talking about.

Help him relax and get aroused. The more turned on he is, the more relaxed his backside will be so take the time to get him really tuned on before hand pulling out all his favorite spots, like kissing, stroking or even blowing.

Get comfortable. First let him figure out which position he's most comfortable in, whether on his stomach or on his back or even on all fours. Then, you should find the best angle for you to get the job done right! You need easy access so you can avoid poking all the wrong spots!

Technique
Anal play will feel best if enjoyed at the same time as other stimulation. If you pleasure him anally while stroking his penis or even while going down on him, you're sure to really blow his mind! So, once you've gotten the hang of penetrating his anus with your finger or a toy, work on multitasking by continuing to play with his bum while you jerk him off or go down on him.

Another tip in terms of technique is to know that there isn't one universal move that just does it for every guy. Listen to him while you touch him and you'll know what feels best for him. And if in doubt'ask!

Great Toys for Your Bum Tease Debut
If you'd rather not use a finger or maybe have already and are lookin' to move onto something new, there are loads of great anal toys on the market that are not only made with beginners in mind, but also ones that are NOT exact replicas of cocks which may have your 'straight' partner running for the hills! Check out these that would be ideal for your man.

Anal Invader CD

Tushy Twister

Swizzle Stick

Vivid Renegades

Beginners Butt Plug


My Lube Picks
I can't stress enough how important lubrication is when indulging in bum play! The more the better! So to make things a little easier, I've chosen my favorite lubes for bum fun. Some are just great lubes and others work not only to lubricate but also to desensitize so that you can minimize any pain or discomfort that may happen the first time that you explore the dark side, so to speak.

Anal Blue

Anal Ease

Elbow Grease (try regular or hot!)

Fruity Booty

Pjur Analyse Me


Now that you've got the best tools and the advice; it's time to get in there and introduce him to a whole new kind of pleasure!

Happy Probing!!

There's a fine line between sexy and trashy and depending on your gal's taste; crossing that line could happen before you know it. If you want to give her a sexy gift but don't want to risk offending her or coming across as a selfish perv, then consider these tips.

3 Tips for Staying On the Right Side of Sexy

Remember the gift is for her and not you. The biggest mistake men make when choosing gifts for their partners is selecting something based on their own tastes and wants. You may like the idea of her dressed in a naughty schoolgirl outfit, but give that to her as a gift and you're likely to get slapped and depending on her mood; accused of being a jerk who wants a younger woman! Think of her style and taste and you should be fine.

Be subtle if you're trying to get her to open up to something new. Just because you're all gung-ho about the idea of trying BDSM, that doesn't mean that she is. So instead of opting for full-on bondage gear worthy of its own dungeon; try a beginner's kit or one of the many more 'vanilla' versions available.

Think pretty and if that fails, then think pink. There's something about pink that can make the most hardcore sex toys all of a sudden look dainty and cute. Even that mammoth 12inch dildo can enlist a high-pitched 'awwww' when bought in pink! So if you're lost for what to buy for your gal; consider a pretty pink toy to appeal to her girly side.

For those of you that will have trouble resisting the urge to buy something that is more for you than for her when left to your own devices; I give you my list of things made with the ladies in mind. Stray from the list and you risk the wrath of an upset and offended woman. Not good.

Some Sexy Things Just for Her

Panties: You can never go wrong with a pair of pretty panties and thankfully they come in regular and queen size. My pick would be one of the pearl thongs for a unique and decadent gift.

Body Jewelry: This is a great choice because you don't have to worry about sizes. Just be sure to choose something that you really believe she'd wear and enjoy. A clit ring may not be everyone's cup of tea so maybe opt for a navel ring (they have clip-ons for those who aren't pierced!)

DVDs: No, this is not your chance to get that 'Mexicunts' collection you've been dreaming of! Depending on her tastes, she'll likely enjoy some of the porn geared at women. The Nina Hartley collection is instructional, but a fave among the girly crowd.

Erotic Books: Women are naturally more turned on by mental stimulation than visual which is why erotica for women is so popular. A copy of the Kama Sutra with paintings as opposed to a really graphic book of positions is also a good way to go.

Pretty Sex Toys: I'll narrow it down to a select few, but you can click here for a blog dedicated to my favorite pretty and pink toys. My first pick is the Deluxe Rabbit Pearl because this vibe can coax and orgasm out of a gal in seconds! It is definitely made just for her. My other two picks are Emma's Garden Lilly Pink and Passion Flower which is so cute that it doesn't even look like a vibrator!

Romantic Gifts: When all else fails then think romance. There are kits made for lovers and romance and they take all the guess work out of what to buy because it's all in there! Check out: Bed of Roses Deluxe, Enchanted Evening or the Romantic Gift Set.

So now that you know what to give her in order to make her really happy and feel special, I suppose it's okay to tell you that in the end; taking the time to choose something just for her will benefit you too since she'll be all raring to show her gratitude for the thoughtful gift. Now how's that for incentive!

Though I am a lover of all things sexy; I will be the first to admit that some sex toys just look downright ridiculous upon first glance and some of the names are over-the-top enough to make anyone roll their eyes. For some; a sweet little bunny face, a dolphin or a beaver do absolutely nothing in terms of arousal and may even illicit a chuckle or two, but, don’t let the appearance of some of these toys fool you and do take the time to figure out what purpose they serve because chances are that you will be very pleasantly surprised by what these odd looking items will do in terms of vamping up your sex life and getting you off!

I’m going to share with you some of the strangest yet most amazing creations in adult toys that I have come across so that you can save yourself some time and heat things up with some of the greatest toys around… once you stop laughing of course.

The first one is the SnugglePuss—the name does it to me every time! This toy not only has a name that can’t help but give you a giggle but it’s also shaped much like a lobster claw and isn’t particularly sexy in appearance, but let me tell you that in terms of function; this toy is the bomb! When inserted properly, this bendy and nubby toy rubs your G-spot just right!

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Valentines Day is coming which means that it’s time to start thinking of ways to celebrate your love and lust… or either or! Valentines Day is the one day of the year where nooky is pretty much guaranteed, so why not take the time to make it as memorable as possible—so memorable that in fact that you’ll be thanked for it for days and days after the 14^th is long gone. *wink*

Thinking a little outside the box is all it takes to make it an extra special day because after all; there is more to Valentines Day than just roses and chocolate! Sexing up the day will be appreciated whether after a romantic dinner or as a start to a long and luscious day of nothing but slippery sex, and since we get that thinking outside the box doesn’t come naturally to everyone; for you especially, there are products to help you score… brownie points with your mate on this special day!

I suppose we should cover the more romantic options first since romance is on everyone’s mind when it comes to this day, but don’t worry my fellow I-heart-non romantic-sex friends; I will get to some great options for us as well!

Bed of Roses: It’s no big surprise that rose-pedals strewn allover a bed are the ultimate in setting the scene for a very romantic night of passion, but have you ever tried real rose pedals on a bed? They stain the sheets!! So opting instead for “Bed Of Roses” will get you all of the same oohs and ahhs without the ruined sheets. This kit comes with 100 scented silk rose pedals, a tea light and an invitation card for your mate! And a bonus: it’s on sale!
Earthly Delights Gift Tin: Nothing says romance like taking the time to pamper your loved one which is why this set is the best. Kama Sutras products are like no others in terms of quality and this set gives you all that you need for a sexy and slippery day or night of sensual fun with the power of aromatherapy on your side! The Oil of Love warms your skin, the almond oil and massage cream tickle your senses and are the only layer that should be between the skin of you and your lover, while the honeysuckle body dust sweetens the deal and your skin! Sensuality at its best.

Honeymoon For Lovers Kit: What better day to relive a honeymoon than Valentines Day?? This kit covers romance and sex at its most delicious with strawberry flavored massage oil, a 5 inch vibrator, a good ol’ fashioned wooden massager, some almond massage oil and Raspberry Sunshine Love Suds for some bath play as well as some feathers to further tickle the senses… and then some!

Erotic Love Notes: These 69 heart-shaped notes allow you to surprise your lover with all kinds of sexy suggestions! Slip one in his briefcase for a mid-day treat or leave one under her pillow for a wake up she’ll never forget! Great not only for Valentines Day but for any other day as well.

Now some suggestions for those of you who are looking to forgo romance in exchange for some down and dirty erotic fun on the day of lovers:

Body Swing: It doesn’t get hotter than this my sexy friends! The body swing is unlike all of the others because rather than suspending from the ceiling; it hangs from the body and offers a whole new slant to your sex—literally!

Kinky Bingo: This game allows you to turn Valentines Day into a naughty adventure for two or more! Invite your friends over and make things hot with a sexy spin on this classic game complete with 250 kinky bingo chips, 60 sexy calling cards and 12 kinky bingo cards!

Love Pillow: This inflatable pillow is designed to maximize your pleasure with its ideal shape and size and increase your position repertoire with its book of “Love Positions”! An inexpensive addition to your night of naughty fun!

Sex Card Game: How easy this makes it for you to plan out 100 possible sex fantasies together that you can then enjoy acting out till your heart’s content! A very inexpensive way to explore your most intimate fantasies! This set comes with 50 explicit sex cards, 3 Rule Cards and 1 Unleash Your Fantasy Sex Card… endless possibilities for just over $5!

There are an endless number of items on sale that you can add to your bag of sexy tricks this Valentines Day to make it one that your lover (or lovers!) will never forget

Is anal sex makin’ a comeback or somethin’?? It just seems that every time I pop by my favorite porn sites all I’m seeing is anal sex! As well as having it in my face on these sites, I recently noticed an influx of friends who are admitting their backdoor experiences or fascination—I’m talking anal sex, a love of a finger or two in the area and even prostate milking their mates and some tucas-lingus or “tongue-around-the-anus”!

Fantasies are a great sexual tool—one that goes hand in hand with toys. When you fantasize, your mind becomes your own personal playground for you to do as you wish including all of those deliciously naughty things that you wouldn’t dare try in your “real life”. Fantasizing is as beneficial as it is fun because it allows you to get in touch with your sexual self, encourages some self-lovin’ which is one of the best ways to learn what you enjoy in bed so that you can teach your lover AND it also relives stress. Doesn’t get better than that! Or does it??

When we lay back and let our minds drift to visions of a naked Colin Farrell or being taken and ravaged by a group of Johnny Depp-esque pirates; our unspoken goals are to make the visual as vivid as possible and hopefully finish off with an orgasm. While I can’t fully guarantee you an orgasm without some diligence on your part, I can teach you how to not just really visualize your sex fantasies but also to make them feel more real—the emphasis being on the word “feel”. This is where sex toys come in…

When you are enjoying a sexual fantasy, you are trying to imagine the way it would feel to have the object of your desire running his hands along your body or teasing your thighs with his tongue and ultimately maybe even sliding inside of you. By using a toy in unison with your thoughts, you are able to make your fantasies come to life or at least make them 3D! You can do this simply by taking any vibrator (finger vibes are a fave!) and using to help you feel what you see. Does your fantasy start off with him caressing your breasts? Turn your vibe on low and trail it lightly along your breasts, following his/her hands so to speak. Does your fantasy partner graze the skin of your tummy as they make their way down and then linger along your inner thighs? Glide your vibe down along that same path as you visualize and feel their touch. Take this as far as penetration if you wish, be4cause after all, this is your fantasy in which you can do as your naughty little heart desires!

One final tip for upping the ante and making your fantasy time as hot as can be: try different positions. The usual lying on your back may be comfortable and a great way to relax and get started, but switching it up can be extremely erotic—especially if you are keeping in unison with the moves in your fantasy. Try lying on your stomach and teasing yourself that way. Imagine him entering you from behind as you slide your toy into you while on all fours. Mmm… endless possibilities…

When it comes to fantasies, the only limitations are those you place on yourself. Relax, let go of your inhibitions and enjoy the beautiful harmony of mind, body and yes, toys.


By our featured writer: Adrie Santos

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It is never too early to prepare for that very special Valentines Day. It is time to make this year's valentines day a sensual, steamy, and spiced up night both of you will remember.

• For beginners, we highly recommend the simple yet powerful bullets and eggs for her. These little stimulators are guarranteed to bring her the big O's she never experienced.


• Wet is always good, these Warming lubricants add hotness to every touch. These warming liquid will sure drive her crazy during the steamy foreplay.


• We can never stress the importance of trying new sex toys and techniques such as bondage. Check out the bondage section to introduce maybe handcuffs, paddles, and masks into your sex life.
  
• one of our best sellers last year was Bed of rose deluxe, it is never a bad idea to buy roses to enhance the mood for both of you.

We also have a huge collection of vibrators, dildos, g-spot stimulators, and clit stimulators that will bring both of your valentines day fantasy to reality.

It is that time of the year again. Instead of shopping for general goods, why not add some sensuality into your christmas gifts. For her or for him, spicy up your holidays with our massive collection of adult toys.

You can't go wrong with Jack Rabbits for her. One of our highest raved rabbit this year is the Deluxe Rabbit Pearl.

Here are couple other good ideas for that spicy kick to your gifts. How about bondage kits for couples? If you have already ventured into sex toys before, you can always get different lubricants, or even some luxury items such as the SwingSet

Remember, to receive your order before christmas, see the recommended order dates below for different shipping methods.
order 12/14/2006 or earlier: UPS Ground and USPS Priority
order 12/19/2006 or earlier: UPS 2nd day air
order 12/20/2006 or earlier: UPS Overnight.

You will have to order on or before the dates above to receive your order.

Have a happy holiday season.

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1. Adult Sex toys add variety and fun to spice up the sex life for you and your partner. These adult toys can be can be used during foreplay, intercourse, and masterbation.
2. Sex toys make a great partner substitute for periods when in-between (or instead of) sexual relationships. (Adult Toys never complain :)
3. One of the great ways of receiving stimulation that may otherwise be difficult to sustain is by using adult sex toys (They will run until you get that big O!)
4. These hard to reach spots that a partner may not be able (or want) to reach can be resolved using sex toys; an example of this might be anal toys.
5. Adult toys can assist in situations where one partner requires more attention than the other is able to give, for example, clitoral stimulation during intercourse using a bullet, etc...
6. Sex toys are great for those times when one partner “wants to” and the other partner doesn’t or can’t.
7. Sex toys promote good health. An orgasm releases stress and tension, and is a great way to start the day or as a “night cap” to help sleep.
8. Sex toys are great in relieving sexual frustrations, which will allow a person to deal with all the other issues that they have to contend with. At the same time, while they are separated from a partner, or have no current partner, they can be satisfied without having to risk cheating or getting a STD from some person they met at the bar.
9. Some of the adult toys are made with such premium quality and original design, it can even be used to decorate a room with erotic themes.
10. Great sex should never be short of creativity and sensitivity. Using a variety of adult toys in different love making sessions will keep your sex life at its peak for a long long time.

1. Clitoral Stimulation
2. Multiple Orgasms
3. Improving Orgasms
4. G-Spot Stimulation
5. Induce Erection During Foreplay

Oral sex is one of the most important part of the sexual foreplay for couples. This is especially true for women because the most sensitive and sexual pleasurable spot on women's body is the clitoris.

There are tons of articles on the internet teaching men and women on how to perform oral sex. What we have below is simply a technique that we found very exciting and pleasurable for both men and women. We call this technique "Eight Gates of Pleasure". (There isn't really an official name for it simply because not many people know of this technique.)

Preparatioin:

1. One glass of ice water with 8 or 9 ice cubes inside.
2. One glass of warm water (a little hotter than lukewarm).
3. Clean towel

1. Spread clean towel on bed.
2. Sip in some warm water, perform your normal oral sex routine on him or her (We assume you already know how to do this perfectly. :-)
3. Stop after one minute and hold one ice cube in your mouth and perform the oral sex routine. (Trust us, it is not as cold as you think it will be. However, try not keep the ice cube on her or him directly for more than 5 seconds.)
4. Stop after one minute and rotate back to the warm water routine. Perform this routation for 8 times (8 ice and 8 warm).
5. Your partner should have experienced orgasms even multiple orgasms (her).

• Try to hold water/ice cube in your mouth when performing oral sex. You should be able to perfect it after a few minutes of practice
• Again, make sure you don't leave the ice cube on her clitoris or his penis for more than 5 seconds. Use your tongue to deliver the temperature change
• Don't be afraid of getting things wet, this is where the fun is

Can sex toys save your marriage? To many people, the simple answer is "No" because marriage is not just about sex, many divorces happen because of other emotional and spiritual issues with the marriage. However, if your marriage is in trouble because of the sex life, then the answer to this question might just be a "Yes".

All of us are fully aware that marriage is a union of love, friendship and intimacy. In today's sexually liberated world, a healthy sex life is having a lot more impact on marriages than say 20,30 years ago. Many people don't realize that their marriages are falling apart because the trigger was bad sex life. Without communication with their partners, (many people don't communicate about this issue), other insignificant issues start to arise and eventually snowball into separation and even divorce.

Our hectic lifestyles aren't helping either. Sex is way down on the list of things to do, sadly being replaced by the longer hours at work, the shopping and the house work. Put frankly many don't have time for sex anymore and there must be an increase in the popularity of the use of the phrase 'I'm too tired'. I am almost positive that every single one of you have used that excuse before.
,br> Low sex marriages across the board often share the same symptoms; you only have sex a few times a month, sex is a chore, you schedule sex, you don't fantasize about your partner, there is no sense of adventure and neither of you are frisky anymore. Suffering these symptoms? If so a remedy is needed but it might not be what you are thinking.

So you might ask, what is the solution?

1. Communication. A fundamental concept that needs to be grasped is that communication is paramount. How can you correct a problem if one half of your relationship doesn't know that one exists? It has been proven time and time again that couples who communicate well and share activities together often have a much more sexually active relationship.
2. Consciously Make Time. Go take a couple's vacation for a weekend. Often couples that manage to escape the children for any substantial periods of time find that they have what can only be described as 'honeymoon sex'. The reduced workload and subsequent lower stress levels seem to remove inhibition and rekindle the slowly dwindling flame.
3. Spice Up Your Bedroom. Change things around in your bedroom because it's the quickest and cheapest way to give you both a change of scenery and even a subtle hint like changing the usual light bulb for a shade of rouge can make a huge impact.
4. Look in the toy box. Many still think of sex toys as being scary looking vibrating gizmos that can only be found in the dodgy back street sex shops found in the nasty side of town - not anymore. Sure you can still find these but when it comes to relationships sometimes it's better to take a more subtle approach.

We just completed a beginner's guide to anal sex. Anal sex is avoided by many people due to the fear of being hurt, fear of hygiene issues, and fear of entering uncharted territories. We would like to assure you that when performed slowly and correctly, anal sex will spice up your sex life beyond your wildest imagination for men and women.

In our article, we answer these three questions first: Does it hurt?, Do women like anal sex?, and If I want to try anal sex, does it mean I am Gay? (question from guys)

Then we describe in seven basic steps to help you understand how to perform anal sex correctly.

1. Clean out your rectum (to avoid a mess and skin abrasions)
2. Turn-on with foreplay (cuddle, kiss, etc.)
3. Rim Preparation (licking)
4. Lube and Finger (to relax the muscle)
5. Strap-on dildo, Butt Plug, Anal Probe, and Anal Beads

Keeping the dildos, the vibrators, and the butt products clean is extremely important for sex toys owners. Especially since these toys are usually used internally. It is best to clean the sex toy before and after each usage to prevent potential illnesses caused by the body fluid left on the sex toy.

One of the most reliable way to prevent the spread of any disease is to use a condom on the toy. Using a condom prevents having to interrupt during sex to clean the toy and lessen the chance of spreading bacterias. Almost all toys feels better used with lubricants. Water based lubricants are the safest.

How to clean sex toys
Antibacterial soap and warm water can be used if you don't have sex toy cleaners. Any sex toy that had contacts with body fluid should be washed in soap and water and then soaked in a solution of 10% bleach and 90% water. Rinse well in clear water for several minutes after to remove bleach and soap. Commercial adult toy cleaning solutions that can be purchased that have been specially formulated to kill all bacteria and germs and at the same time preserve the life of the toys.

Cyberskin Sex Toys Cleaning
Cyberskin is extremely sensitive and should be cleaned following use with warm water and stored in a clean dry place to keep the toy like new.

Silicone Vibrators & Dildos
Silicone is a very durable material so it can be easily cleaned with soap and warm water. Even boiling the toy for disinfection or wash it in a dishwater will not harm it. However, to go to such an extreme, make sure there are no plastic parts and the toy is waterproof.

Rubber Dildos, Plugs & Etc.
The best and easiest way to keep rubber clean is with a condom. Clean all rubber products after use with soap and warm water. They need to also be rinsed well as the left over soap residue can cause damage to the rubber and also irritate the skin.

Latex
Do not use any oil based lubricants on latex. Use only water-based products with latex.

Leather
Leather is a very difficult material to keep clean because of all the irregularities of the material. To clean leather, first wash the edges with a strong foaming cleaner and a brush, then wipe down all of the surfaces with hydrogen peroxide and allow to dry. Follow this by using saddle soap for an additional cleaning. The last process is using a leather conditioner to restore it back to its natural finish. The leather conditioner is an absolute must because without it the leather will begin to dry out and crack. This process does not work on suede.

Sex Toys Storage
Very simple rule for sex toys storage: keep it out of sunlight and make sure the place is not humid.

Note: To get the best battery life for your toy, take the batteries out after each use.

I recently came across the following article. It is a short yet very informative article on why sex toys should be incorporated into everyone's sex lives. Enjoy...

Remnants of the free love generation have thankfully survived and in recent years a sexual revival has resurged in the American psyche and bedroom. This time, however, the participants are a bit wiser and more sophisticated in their sexual exploration. As a result sex toys, once limited to the margins of society, have come full circle and are now in the mainstream of American living. Individuals and couples who had never before tried sex toys are now doing so for the first time. And yet, there still remains some who are scared of introducing sex toys into their life.

This fear comes in large part from a misunderstanding about the uses and ramifications of sex toys. They imagine that sex toys are limited to extreme versions of fetishism or that somehow sex toys are a means of separating you from your partner. These two conclusions cannot be farther from the truth.

With the recent explosion in the popular usage of sex toys, manufacturers have created a wide array of products designed to meet the needs and interests of everyone. While certainly there exists a wide array of S & M products on the market today which those interested in find extremely fun, there also exist a number of products designed for the novice user.

The sex toy industry is completely aware of the desire for many individuals to keep their toys discrete. As a result, a number of products have been designed with that end in mind. Vibrators that look exactly like lipstick containers and lotions and lubricants which are described with terms like ‘relaxation’ rather than more explicit sexual terminology come to mind. The discrete design and packaging of sexual toys allows even the shyest of individuals to feel comfortable.

With fears allayed as to the nature of sex toys, the next question is about their effects on an existing relationship. Whereas in decades past sex toys were largely limited to single individuals or those focused on a particular area of sex, normally labeled fetishism, recently sex toys have been brought into millions of couples bedrooms. Sex toys can be a new and exciting way to spice up sex between a couple who has been together for some time. It can also be an excellent way for couples to explore new areas to find that something works better for them. In effect, sex toys, rather than creating division between couples, are often a source which brings them together in new and exciting romantic situations.

Author: Susan Atibizi
Article Publisher: www.iSnare.com

Interesting article from MSNBC

When America's top sex researchers gathered recently to discuss the next decade in their field, some envisioned a future in which artificial sex partners could cater to every fantasy.

"What is very likely to be present before 2016 would be a multi-sensual experience of virtual sex," said Julia Heiman, director of the Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction at Indiana University, Bloomington.

"There is a possibility of developing erotic materials for yourself that would allow you to create a partner of certain dimensions and qualities, the partner saying certain things in that interaction, certain things happening in that interaction."

A field dubbed "teledildonics" already allows people at two remote computers to manipulate electronic devices such as a vibrator at the other end for sexual purposes.

"People who use it are just blown away," said Steve Rhodes, president of Sinulate Entertainment, which has sold thousands of Internet-connected sex devices over the past three years. "This is not something that just the lunatic fringe does."

"The Iraq war ... was kind of a boom for our company."

Gina Lynn, who writes the "Sex Drive" column for Wired magazine, says she has used and enjoyed the Sinulator and says there is no reason to fear the technology.

"People are still really afraid of...any sort of combination of sex and technology and of the Internet," she said. "What people are missing here is the point, which is the human connection that we are facilitating through the technology."

"No one who is even inventing this stuff wants or even thinks that technology could ever replace human connection or sex."

Annie Sprinkle, a former adult film actress, prostitute and author of "Spectacular Sex," said teledildonics are a logical outgrowth of improvements in pleasure devices.

"Now people use vibrators like mad and rightly so; the technology of sex toys has vastly improved," she said. "The more options the better; I mean it can never replace body to body."

--- The story went on to talk about virtual sex with porn stars and other technologies that influences your mind. Read more by following the link on top. ---

Everyone of us has experienced a period of time called "honeymoon period" where two people just met, fell in love, and sex is hot and heavy especially. However, as time goes on, the female partner tend to withdraw from having sex often, which in return is very frustrating to her male partner.

I would like to discuss a few methods that is proven to work on women to bring out a more romantic and satisfying sex life for both of you.

We will discuss two of them today:

1. Keep yourself and your partner in good physical shapes
This is a long term project for yourself and your partner. Sex in its rawest form is a very physical activity, the feel and the touch during sex are very important to both partners. In today's world, people are subconsciously attracted to certain body types because of the heavy bombardments of TV shows and commercials. It is almost impossible for everyone to look like them; however, just because you don't have six packs, doesn't mean you are not physically fit and attractive to your partner. Hit the gym and lift weights to increase these muscle mass. Do some cardios for your stamina. Most importantly, encourage your partner to go with you. Girls, try Yoga and Pilate, they are fun, and they can increase your flexibility, which doubles the points in bed. As studies show, cardio activities can increase endurance for prolonged sexual activity and increase men and women's sexual desires. About.com has another article on this topic, check it out as well: About.com's article on sex and exercise

2. Spice it up
One of the biggest problems for partners to lose interest is the routine sexual activities. You can't just set a time and date to have sex, and you can't just have the same old routine during sex. It becomes extremely boring after a while. Try to create an unpredictable environment for sexual activities. If you have never used sex toys, try to surprise her with a bullet (a great startup sex toy). Another great way to spice it up is try blindfolds and cuffs. You can trust me, not many women will say no to blindfolds. It is just another fantasy of ours. There are many other creative ways to surprise your partner, such as find an erotic story to read or erotic video to watch, etc...

More to come...

Since the beginning of recorded time the most common health complaint among women was ‘hysteria’, a medical term used to describe a woman in mental or emotional distress and a condition that was thought to be in need of immediate treatment.

To treat the so-called ailment, doctors and midwives massaged the genitals to "hysterical paroxysm," as the orgasm was scientifically termed, to release held-back energies.
The procedure was performed in doctor’s offices, health spas, and the home as a standard medical procedure.

In the mid-1600’s Doctors recommended the following treatment for hysteria:

"...massage the genitalia with one finger inside using oil of lilies, musk root, crocus or [something] similar. And in this way the afflicted woman can be aroused to paroxysm (orgasm)…most especially for widows, those who live chaste lives, and religious females...it is less often recommended for very young women, or married women, for whom it is a better remedy to engage in intercourse with their spouses."

19th century religious proscriptions against self-masturbation meant that Doctors or midwives rather than the individual performed the stimulation. Most doctors did it because they felt it was their duty, but considered it a chore, as manual massage was fatiguing and slow, taking up to an hour to ‘complete’ the procedure.

Beginning in the early 1800’s, Doctors designed many other procedures for arousing women and alleviating the symptoms of ‘hysteria’ for a time including rocking chairs, a swing, and vehicles that bounced the patient rhythmically on her pelvis. It appears however that the women of the day had the problem well in hand.

By 1870 the gentle Doctors got on the right track with a wind-up vibrator made available to both spas and physicians. Obviously no woman was interviewed during the design stage as in field trials it had a tendency to run down before the treatment was complete.

Shortly after the wind up vibrator fiasco, vibrator development took another distinctly male design turn when an American physician patented the "Manipulator" - a steam-powered massage and vibratory apparatus. He warned that patients should be careful to avoid over-manipulation.

Finally, in the 1880’s a British physician invented the electromechanical vibrator for use as a medical instrument issuing in the golden years for dildos. Other physicians followed suit with contraptions intended to serve as vibrators. Articles and textbooks on vibratory massage technique praised the machine's versatility for treating nearly all diseases in both sexes and saving physicians’ time and labor. These vibrators reduced the time of "getting there" from up to an hour to approximately 10 minutes.

By the end of the 19th century, some doctors were advising women to come in for such treatments once a week.

In an effort to better serve the patient, convenient portable models become available, permitting house calls. Vibrators had come of age as an accepted health and relaxation aid.

The electric vibrator was invented right after the electric sewing machine, fan, teakettle and toaster, and before the electric vacuum cleaner, the electric iron and the electric frypan.

The Home Needlework Journal advertised its line of vibrators with the slogan "all the pleasures of youth will throb within you."

As the market became more competitive, ad copy for vibrators was coy and ambiguous. "Be a glow getter," one package insert suggests. And who wouldn't be tempted to experience "that delicious, thrilling health-restoring sensation called vibration," when assured that "it makes you fairly tingle with the joy of living"?

The Sears and Roebuck & Company Electric Goods catalog promotes a vibrator attachment for a home motor that also drives attachments for churning, beating, buffing and fan operating America’s housewives had all but eliminated long bouts of ‘hysteria’ when 1920 Stag films started using vibrators as props. Orgasm without penetration! The vibrator's era as a medical appliance had ended. Advertisements for vibrators gradually disappeared from respectable publications as vibrators transgressed to becoming sex toys.

1960s: Vibrator re-emerges and is openly marketed as a sex aid.
It is quite astounding that in the 1970’s Medical authorities still assured men that a woman who does not reach orgasm during sexual coitus was flawed or suffering from some physical or psychological impairment. It wasn’t until the 1990s that research showed that more than half of all women, possibly more than 70 percent, do not reach orgasm by means of penetration alone.

Vibrators are now a big business; after all, as a vintage advertisement claims,
"almost like a miracle is the miraculous healing force of massage when rightly applied."

We have just implemented the new order by "Review Rating (High to Low)" feature on our dropdown boxes for all sex toys listings. If you browse to a category such as Rabbit Vibrators, you will see the drop down box default to "Product Name Ascending", click on the box and choose "Review Rating (High to Low)", it will sort the products by review ratings (rated by our customers), If two or more sex toys have the same rating, the one with the most number of votes will be placed first.

Hopefully this addition will make your shopping easier at our store. We continue to add new features to our store to make things better for customers. We will keep you updated.

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Since 2002, Sue's wisdom and experience have been available to American viewers on "Talk Sex with Sue Johanson™", a live phone-in program airing on Oxygen TV. Talk Sex also airs in Brazil with Portuguese subtitles on GNT.

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