shopping cart Shopping Cart
order status Track Order
sign in Sign In
contact us Contact Us
    HOME       Search:     $$$ Return Customers Discount $$$ My Account  |  Checkout   
Our Sexuality Blog
Adult Toys Store  |   Sex Toy Reviews  |   Adult Articles  |   Sexuality Blog  |   Adult Community New!
Anal Sex Toys-Just the Facts Part 2
June 02, 2013

Horny Honey Pleasure Anal Beads

OK let’s get to the bottom of using anal sex toys during your love making sessions shall we.

I’m sure like many people whether you’re a man or a woman – gay or straight - at some point during your sexual encounters you’ve felt that delicious shiver of anticipation as a finger – tongue or cock has brushed against, or probed your butt. However you’ve tensed – fought against the waves of intense pleasure rushing through your body - and held back.

Anal sex can be scary – but once you’ve tried it trust me your orgasms - as amazing as they are now – will increase at least four-fold leaving you a glowing – satisfied - quivering - spent wreck such is their intensity – now that has to be a good thing right!

Anal toys are a simple – safe and an extremely satisfying introduction to anal sex and with new technology and design comes a new breed of butt sex toys that are easy to use on both men and women – designed to hit the right spot – and as I ‘ve said earlier they will increase your pleasure.

The reason anal sex is so powerful and gives such intense pleasure is down to a mix of biology and indeed psychology. We all know it’s the ‘unknown’ or ‘great forbidden’ and that of course heightens the pleasure – and from a biological standpoint, for men the prostate gland with the merest of touches can induce a mind blowing orgasm – whilst for the woman the correct stimuli can cause the fabled ‘G-Spot’ to go into overdrive!

Prostate Massager White

Anal toys come in all shapes and sizes – for beginners it’s probably best to start experimenting with smaller sets of anal beads – butt plugs or anal probes. And without doubt I suggest you add good quality anal lubes to the mix - not only will the lubrication make everything easier and more comfortable to slide into – the lubes of today with their various formulas even add to the pleasure.

And of course cleanliness is also an important aspect of good anal sex – you’ll increase the life of your toys by cleaning them regularly – but more importantly a visit to the bathroom before anal sex will decrease the chance of nasty little surprises – if you catch my drift!

Anal sex and the use of good quality butt sex toys is an amazing experience that will instil greater trust between you and your partner and of course lead to a fuller more satisfying sex life.

Browse through our site and checkout the wide variety of anal toys and specialized anal lubes we have for sale and start the path to a better love life.

And it goes without saying you’ll enjoy not only our toys – but our incredible prices and our orders are delivered swiftly and of course packaged discreetly.

My 1st Anal Explorer Kit Pink

Anal Sex Toys-Just the Facts
April 25, 2013

vibrating butt plug

Real men take it up the ass – there I’ve said it and I’m pretty sure most of the men reading this are now shifting uncomfortably in their seats. Whilst no doubt more than a few are nodding sagely with a wistful smile on their faces.
The simple fact of the matter is like it or lump it a zillion gay guys can’t be wrong now can they? I mean what’s in it for the guy on the receiving end of a cock or anal sex toy up the poop chute? Have you ever wondered that?
OK let’s get a little biological here. The butt is one of the most highly sensitive erogenous zones on the body – that’s for both men and women – and butt toys hit the spot perfectly.

And for the uneducated – that means touching the right point on a man can send the most amazing sexual sensations to the brain resulting in probably the most intense love making of your life – now as a real man that’s what you’re looking for right?

anal probe

And hold it right there – enjoying anal sex as a straight guy doesn’t mean that overnight you’ll start wearing lilac shirts and begin cooing over soft furnishing catalogues. Far from it – what it will do is intensify your sex life and – and I have no doubt it will give your female sexual partner the thrill of her life. Trust me guys it doesn’t build sexual trust any better than letting her loose with anal sex toys!

There are millions of butt toys out there and most can be used to pleasure both the man and the woman. A serious point to make here is that cleanliness is important when it comes to anal sex – I mean the last thing she’ll want to see on the length of her new anal beads is say a baked bean skin lol. So make sure you hit the bathroom first and clean well. And of course buying specialized anal lube will make the whole thing a lot more pleasurable especially for the first time.

This is the 21st century and nowadays sexual taboos are a thing of the past with more and more straight couples not only experimenting with anal sex – but they’re buying butt sex toys in their millions. So maybe it’s time you joined the anal sexual revolution and let her get on top for a change – it could be the most erotic thing you’ve ever done.

anal butt plug

Broaden Your Horizons Today and Try an Anal Sex Toy!
Sex Toy Gift Ideas for Valentine’s Day and Beyond
February 02, 2013

Well St Valentine’s Day is nearly upon us again and I expect the greetings card manufacturers, florists and chocolate sellers are rubbing their hands together in anticipation of the money about to come rolling in. Although chocolates, flowers and a romantic card are a very nice touch, they are quite fleeting things. Maybe the card could be preserved, but flowers don’t last forever and, if you are anything like me, chocolates don’t last as long as the flowers.

If you want to give a gift that will give pleasure time and time again, it might be worth taking a look at some of the really popular sex toys that are available and, as Valentine’s is a day to celebrate lovers, why not celebrate in style with something that will pleasure you both? These gift ideas will keep the love going well beyond Valentine’s Day and are also great gifts for other special occasions like anniversaries, birthdays or just to say ‘I love you’.

Adult Games

Adult games are always a good way to start an evening of fun and passion and can bring out the more adventurous side, suggesting different things to try. Don’t be surprised though if you get carried away half way through a game and don’t get to finish it. There is a wide selection of adult games available from simple dice games to full blown board games.


Sexy lingerie is always a popular choice for setting the mood. Our lingerie range includes everything from lacy baby dolls to leather fetish lingerie – something to suit every taste. Dressing to please can also enhance those adult games sessions. Wearing sexy lingerie and feeling sexy is bound to spark off some interesting bedroom activity. Lingerie is the perfect gift for every occasion and not just Valentine’s Day.

Romantic Gifts for Lovers

Celebrate the most romantic day of the year by giving a very romantic gift. What could be more romantic than a soothing, sensually scintillating massage? Choosing a Hot Love massage kit from the Amour range provides a relatively inexpensive experience that will leave you both tingling. Also from the Amour range is the Amour Playful Massager Romance Kit which incorporates massage oil with an adult game element in the shape of playful dice. The kit is completed with the multi-speed massager – which looks remarkably like a vibrator to me.

Adult DVDs

How about a nice glass of wine, candlelight and settling down to watch an inspiring adult DVD? Whether you want to just sit back and watch a dirty movie or learn how to improve your sexual techniques, there is a wide range of adult DVDs to choose from in our large selection. Some popular titles include Award Winning Sex Scenes, 101 Advanced Positions, Lesbian Sex, 22 Sex Secrets, Tips & Turn Ons, The G-spot & Female Ejaculation, and many more titles to entice, educate, and stimulate the mind and body.

Sex Toys for Her

Valentine’s Day is for spoiling your lover. A man can really make his woman’s Valentine’s Day very special with a Best Friend Forever Blue Dolphin. This powerful, waterproof, three speed G-spot and clitoral vibrator will have her eating out of his hand. Our range of Sex Toys for Her includes Rabbit Vibrators, G-Spot Teasers, Clit Stimulators, Ben Wa & Orgasmic Ball, and so much more. These extraordinary sex toys make for a great sexy gift for Valentine’s Day; or whenever you want say “I Love You” in your own erotic way.

Sex Toys for Him

What man wouldn’t enjoy receiving a pack of 69 Blow Me Strawberry Male Enhance Cream? Not only Is he going to get his cock massaged as she rubs the cream in, but he is also going to get a blow job to die for when she licks and sucks that delicious strawberry cream off.

For those of you who like to be a little more adventurous, you may wish to try out some of the things you may have read about in EL James’ exciting best seller “Fifty Shades of Grey”. If you haven’t read it, then you can buy it at discreet-romance.com too. If you do buy the book it may be worth investing in a Beginners Bondage Fantasy Kit at the same time.

The thing to remember is that sex toy ideas are great for Valentine’s Day, but then they are great for every other occasion as well. Whether it is a birthday or an anniversary, Christmas or just an impulse purchase, sex toy gifts bring a lot of pleasure to both giver and receiver – but isn’t that always the way with good sex?

Don’t forget to place your order a week in advance to make sure your choice of gift arrives in time for the big day.

Oiling the Wheels of Sensuality
December 03, 2012

Whether you are looking to add a hint of sensuality to your foreplay, or you are in need of a little help when it comes to entering those delicious pleasure zones, there comes a time when you will need to employ a little lubricant to keep the wheels of sensuality turning. Of course, like many of the wonderful aids we use for our sexual pleasures, sex lubricants have enjoyed a little less than glamorous reputation in the past, not least because of their unimaginative nature. Lovemaking kind of loses a little of its romantic appeal when the proceedings are halted mid-session in order to apply a little spit to gain access.

The whole world of sex lubes has opened up into a panorama of evocatively named products that cater for more than just the obvious and your imagination can embark on wonderful adventures bringing a sensual variety of things to try either on your own or with your lover.

The emphasis is on pleasure and it makes perfect sense to make that pleasure last for as long as possible. Couples find that using sex lubes and sex oils greatly enhances their love life, prolonging those intimate encounters so that each can gain fulfillment. With names like Kama Sutra Body Soufflé, it is certainly obvious what mood the product is designed to evoke. What could be more erotically suggestive than ‘Kama Sutra’ and what could be more deliciously wicked than a ‘body soufflé’?

From beautifully scented aromatherapy oils, to mouthwatering flavored body gels, discreet-romance.com can offer you the best range in modern sex oils and sex lubricants.

Of course, when ‘flying solo’, there is absolutely no need to compromise and the use of your favorite sex lube in conjunction with your favorite sex toy makes for an extremely enjoyable combination.

How do you know which product is right for you? The simple answer is, “Suck it and see.” That is quite literal advice when it comes to the terrific range of flavored oils and gels available, all of which are designed to make your foreplay an extremely tasty experience.

So you can see that sex lubes have come a very long way since the days of spit and KY Jelly and they offer so much more than just a little lubrication. Massage and aromatherapy oils allow you and your partner to experience both relaxation and arousal at the same time, as your hands explore each and every part of one another’s body as part of your foreplay, bringing the body into a heightened state of awareness when the passion takes over. Of course, flavored gels and oils are designed for oral consumption and consequently should only be applied to parts of the body that are likely to be licked or sucked to gain the fullest effect. Using these products also signals intent that you are likely to be concentrating on certain parts of your partner’s anatomy and this will indeed help to intensify the effect of whatever it is you are proposing to do.

Lubrication is no longer something that has to be done before you can enjoy penetrative sex, but is now almost an art form in sensuality. It is a way of expressing yourself in a way that gives maximum stimulation to you and your partner, whilst showing an almost untamed desire to give pleasure, which will be gratefully appreciated when it comes to the final act of love making.

Next time you feel the desire to treat your partner to a little sensual indulgence, the world of sex oils and lubes will open up a wealth of opportunities to make them feel special, pampered and loved. It is a pretty safe bet that you will reap the benefits of your actions too.
Sex Toys Aren't Just For Going Solo
June 28, 2012

For many people, when they think of a sex toy, they think of a woman alone in her bedroom with a vibrator. While that is often the case, sex toys don't always have to be a one person activity. There are many sex toys available that are great for couples. There is such a variety, that nowadays, even the most vanilla couples can integrate adult toys in their relationships.

Why use sex toys in your relationship? One good reason is because it may be good for you! While there aren't any studies showing a direct link between sex toys and health, studies have shown that sex can help your heart, improve your immune system and reduce stress. Studies have also shown that sex toys can help you have better sex.

So how do you introduce sex toys into your relationship? The first step is to talk about it. Sex is a natural part of any adult relationship, and an open dialogue is key to a healthy relationship. Little steps like verbally introducing the topic or even shopping together, not only eases nervous partners into the idea, it also considers the feelings and desires of both parties. If you aren't sure what your partner would like, ask them. Chances are the discussion might serve as foreplay on its own.

Some sex toy users wouldn't dream of sharing their toys with their partner out of fear of it damaging their relationship. If you are concerned that your partner might be a little jealous of your sex toys, don't be! There are plenty of toys that are enhanced by a partner rather than replacing them.

For couples new to sex toys, or perhaps even intimidated by it, a cock ring is a good place to start. Cock rings or worn by males, and benefit both the male and female. They are great for beginner couples because they do not interfere with the normal process of intercourse. A cock ring provides stimulation to the penis, by restricting the blood flow. This can increase performance, benefiting the recipient, and also increase pleasure, benefiting the wearer. There are even cock rings that have textures designed to stimulate the clitoris, and vibrations to stimulate both partners.

While vibrators can be enjoyed solo, remote control vibrators are best played with by two. These toys are made to be worn by one person while controlled by another. Because the wearer is at the whim of the remote holder, these toys encourage trust between the couple, while rewarding mischievousness. Remote controlled vibrators are also handy for taking bedroom activities outside the bedroom. With these toys, a busy couple with work or children can continue to play while tending to their day to day responsibilities.

Cock rings and remote control vibrators are excellent sex toys for any couple, but for the sexually adventurous bondage toys are a great way to introduce novelty into a relationship. These toys are great for both beginners and the advanced because they are so varied. Bondage toys can be as innocent as a satin blindfold and tickler, or as restrictive as a full on restraint system. These toys even often come in kits so couples can try a variety of toys out before they commit to one type.

Regardless of whether you start with a cock ring, blindfold, or remote control vibrator, sex toys can work wonders for any relationship. Not only are they fun, they encourage communication, foreplay, and exploration of your partner's body. Even toys that are traditionally for solo play can be enjoyed by couples if both are committed to causing their partner pleasure. If your relationship could use a little spice, or you're looking for your next toy don't limit yourself to going at it alone.

Everything you need to know about Lubes
April 29, 2012

Have you ever considered anal? If you have, you are probably aware of the usefulness of a quality lubricant. For all types of sexual encounters, lubricants can improve the experience, increase stimulation, and even assist with performance. They also help with the longevity of toys.

For the most part, lubricants come in three varieties: water based, oil based, and silicone based. Each of them work the same, but might be better for different scenarios. Water based lubricants are easily absorbed and work well with all types of toys. Oil based lubricants include natural oils that moisturize the skin and can double as massage oil. Silicone lubes coat and create a silky, moisturizing effect that often last long enough for multiple uses. Choosing which lube to use can depend on rather you want all around moisture, something to use with toys or heavy duty lubrication for anal play.

Lubricants can also be used to create a little extra spice in the bedroom. Arousal gels added to the vagina or penis before intercourse help bring additional blood flow and excitement to already sensitive areas. Arousal gels can be used for all types of sexual intercourse as well as simply applied directly to the body.

Similar to how arousal gels help in the bedroom by increasing stimulation, prolonging gels work their magic by decreasing stimulation. Desensitizing spray lubes and gels are used to assist with anal penetration, oral sex, and early ejaculation. These special lubricants remove some of the sensation so the user can spend more time doing what they love.

If providing a little extra moisture, adding some more sensation, or prolonging the experience isn't reason enough to use lubes, prolonging the life of toys might be. Many dolls, strokers and dildos last longer when a quality water based lube is used with it. So if you don't already have a little extra liquid in your closet, now is the time to stock up.

Sexy Elves, X-Mas Cock Warmers and Other Fun Christmas Ideas
November 29, 2011

Anyone notice all the Christmas movies on TV this past week? I for one loved it and was happy to spend the weekend lounging on the couch watching Elf on the 3 or 4 different channels that aired it. As a matter of fact, it was watching the movie Elf that inspired this post-well, that and my belief that lazy weekends and long Sunday afternoon sex sessions go hand-in-hand!

I love the part in the movie where Buddy the Elf falls for Jovie and says something to her about her sharing his affinity for elf culture. Too cute! Anyway, it instantly reminded me of a couple of the new items that Discreet-Romance got in just recently and I thought it would be fun to share them with you-in case you share my affinity for Elf culture, Christmas, and all things sexy.

I should say that even though I love Christmas, I've never been a big fan of the cheesy Santa-inspired lingerie that you see in the panty department of just about every store you enter. You know the kind. I guess that's why I wanted to share some of these pieces that you're about to see; they're definitely a few steps above the usual Christmas lingerie and I can actually see the appeal of these. Anyway, here are some sexy Christmas-inspired goodies to help you get in the mood...for Christmas. *wink*

Jingle Bells Sexy Elf Costume is flattering thanks to the princess seams and halter straps (great for keeping the "girls" in place!). The fact that it's incredibly cute and cupless makes it naughty and nice! It's available in regular and plus sizes.

Kris Tingle is by far one of the sexiest and least cheesy sexy Santa costumes I have ever come across! It comes with the hat, bra, cape, mini skirt, and even a G-string for a naughty surprise under the barely-there skirt. So freakin' sexy! And, it comes in queen sizes too!

Mistress Claus Red Teddy is not your usual Santa teddy because this one is actually cut in a truly flattering way and looks HOT when it's on as opposed to the cheap and ill-fitting versions you're used to seeing in discount department stores. I love that this one also comes in regular and curvy sizes.

A Few Extra Christmas-Inspired Gift Ideas

There are a few more noteworthy Christmas gift ideas for your lover that I wanted to share. Like the Merry Berry Soy Candle that smells incredible and liquefies into a sensual massage oil. I also got a kick of the X-Mas Tuggie which, while not quite as romantic, is definitely a strange/funny/is-this-for-real sorta' gift that would make a fun stocking stuffer. What is it? Well, it's a red and white striped cock warmer. Yes, really! And, the Reindeer Musical G-String is another item that's just so cheesy that it's actually funny! I love this thing and I don't care who knows it! Perfect for getting a laugh out of your guy this Christmas as well as the perfect ploy to get him out of his clothes! It's exactly what the name suggests: a G-string that looks like a reindeer and plays music. You'll never look at Rudolph the same way again!!
Oral Sex Toys: Reasonable Facsimiles for the Gal Whose Guy Won't go down
August 15, 2011

I'm a fan of Nina Hartley's and get my fix by reading her column every chance I get. Her recent column talked about the giving and getting of oral sex, or rather the giving-but-not-always-getting-it-in-return. Naturally this got me to thinking about all of the hang-ups around oral sex and the number of men who just won't go down but have no issues when it comes to you bustin' out the kneepads and doing the deed. The solution? Well, you could talk to your partner and wait patiently for him to get over his vaginas are dirty hang-up or you could find a reasonable substitute for oral to keep you company while you work it out!

I had a snoop around and found a few tongue toys that offer a woman an oral sex experience without the selfish whining a man. Check out some of your options:

The Waterproof Finger Fun Tongue by Pipedreams may be small but I can't help but think that it feels closer to the real thing than one of the many other horse-size jumbo tongues on the market. This baby also slips over your finger for better control and focused stimulation.

The Mini Tongue by Lady Calston is the more compact version of THE Tongue that women have grown to know and love since it was the first of its kind. What's great about this one is that it's small enough to control just right, it feels fleshy like the real thing, and as an added bonus - it's insertable! Hello darting tongue!

Tantric Tongue 2 by Pipedreams has had many a great thing said about it. From the wiggling to the lapping, how can you not wanna try this oral sex toy? It's also more affordable than a lot of the other tongue toys.

The Tongue Twister by Golden Triangle gets an A for its added feature: the nose! This tongue gives you a realistic oral fest that's made even more realistic thanks to the nose that presses against your clit just like the real thing. And, it's flexible enough to be bent into the shape that feels best for you! LOVE IT!!


How to Buy a Sex Toy When You Can Look But Not Touch?
June 23, 2011

I will forever sing the praises of shopping for sex toys online because there are just so many ways in which it is better than shopping for them in-store. The only real downside I can see to buying toys online is that you don't get touch the merchandise beforehand to know exactly how it feels. To some, this can be a deal-breaker that stops them from experiencing the joys of squealing in delight as the postal service truck drops off your discreet package containing your dirty little secrets. This is a joy that no one should ever be deprived of just because of something as small as not being able to feel a sex toy before you buy it.

It's totally understandable to want to know everything you can about a sex toy or anything else you buy before you spend your money, including how it feels and while you yourself can't experience the feeling of handling the sex toy before ordering online, you can get a good sense of what it feels like simply by taking advantage of all the information at your fingertips when shopping for sex toys online. This includes product details, reviews, and the pictures. The product information will always include specs like the materials the toy's made from and the size. If you're not good with measurements don't just guesstimate-measure! Keep a measuring tape or ruler nearby when buying sex toys online so you can see just how big-or small-your sex toy of choice is before you click the 'add to cart' button. Some surprises are good, but finding out that the cute little sex toy you got is actually mammoth is not so good. Measure and be sure.

Sex toy reviewers can be your best friends when you're trying to buy a sex toy online because they're the ones who can give you the only information that the product descriptions lack: the lowdown on how the toy feels. Take the time to read sex toy reviews of any products you're considering because they can give you the insight that will help you decide if a particular toy is what you want it to be. I get that the last thing you wanna do is read when you've got sex and toys on the mind, but spending that little bit of time could ensure that you get want you really want.

Stop with the Same Ol’ Bachelorette Party Games Already!!!
May 23, 2011

I gotta say that I always used to poo-poo on the cheesy games played at bachelorette parties. It just seemed that every bachelorette I went to was a repeat of the last with all the same games being played. I finally figured out that the girls planning these parties were all either swapping ideas from other bachelorette parties they’d been too or randomly Googling them and choosing from the first few sites they came across. The remedy to this if you too are responsible for planning your friend’s farewell to the single life? Check out games that you can buy on sites like this one because not only is the selection way better but, you also end up with fun games that the guests haven’t already played in the last few rounds of stagettes they’ve attended.

Here are a few of the bachelorette party games that I personally find freakin’ hysterical and oh-so-entertaining:

BOOBIE DODGEBALL: This is not your run-of-the-mill bachelorette party game by any stretch! What can be funnier than a bunch of drunk women whipping boobs at each other while also trying to dodge a few shots?? H-I-L-L-A-R-I-O-U-S!!!

PAINT-A-PECKER: For your crafty friends or to add a little art to the soiree, this is a ceramic pecker that comes with a paint set for your guests to paint and personalize for the bride-to-be! Do it as a fun game by allowing the bride to choose her favorite for a prize, or just paint it for your bride to cherish forever…and ever…and ever.

DELUXE SPIN THE BOTTLE: So what if you’re not really into women; playing a drunken round of spin the bottle is definitely one way to set your bachelorette party apart from the rest and make for one very interesting evening! Besides, most women are at least a little curious about what it would be like to kiss another woman, so why not buy this inexpensive game and live a little? You just may enjoy it!

MISS BACHELORETTE’S PICTURE IT: For all of you who enjoy the odd evening playing Pictionary, this is essentially the same game with a bachelorette theme to it. Not as crazy as the others but still definitely loads of fun and a great way to get people to interact with each other. Besides, it sure beats yet another game of 22 Questions.

Have Green Sex
April 27, 2011

I know that we've just celebrated Easter weekend and I would generally try to cater my post to the holiday at hand, but we celebrated more than just Easter these past few days -- we also celebrated Earth Day (April 22nd). So, instead of a post about rabbit vibrators and eggs, I have decided to talk about green sex toys. That's right; you can get off green and feel even better about using sex toys thanks to non-toxic sex toys, rechargeable toys, and toys made of sustainable materials.

Most sex toy makers have been creating phthalate-free sex toys for your safety and the good of the earth, but did you know that you can also get your mitts on solar powered sex toys? Yes indeedy my friends; the Solar Bullet is a solar powered vibrating bullet that packs a mean punch in the way of hot orgasms without using up energy. This eco-friendly sex toy is safe, energy efficient and on sale! Then there's always the tried and true rechargeable sex toys like the Climax Twist, the Lily and NEA, and the Elise, all of which are phthalate-free and oh so pretty!

You can't enjoy your green sex toys without some equally green lube and thankfully there are now loads of them to choose from. Toko Lubricant Organica is a water-based lube made with pure vegetable glycerin and a natural corn by-product, both of which are certified organic. From the same makers there is also a range of organic sensual lotions and potions, a bunch of which you can enjoy all at once with the Garden Of Edo Organic Collection tin. This collection is incredibly decadent and contains massage oil, aphrodisiac oil, sea crystals, lubricant, and many more organic and earth-friendly goodies. (This one is actually on my 'Must Have' list at the mo'.)

If you wanna practice safe sex that's also safe for the environment, then you do have some choices. You'll be pleased to know that even though they tend to take a long time to break down, latex condoms are biodegradable. Lambskin condoms are the best choice as far as biodegradable condoms go, but remember that they don't protect you from STDs, including HIV.

Going green has never been more fun!

Wanna Be a Sex Professional? This Blog Just May Help You!
October 06, 2010

So it's been a big week for those working as sex professionals in Ontario, Canada now that the prostitution laws have been struck down. Prostitutes are now able to round up business freely and run their business out of their homes without fear of being arrested. I personally support this decision because it will help keep a lot of women off the dangerous streets and allow them to earn their living in the safety of a home or brothel. Sure beats winding up dead and buried on a pig farm in B.C., like 49 other prostitutes did!
In honor of this ruling, let's look at some must-haves for those of you looking to run a brothel or work independently from home. Yes, that's right; I'm helping you get started as a sex worker if that's what you're looking to be.

Hmm...It's been a few seconds since I typed that and I haven't yet been struck down by lightening and see no sign of a locust infestation outside my window. Guess that means it's safe for me to proceed...

First on my list of must-haves if you're planning to take advantage of this new ruling is condoms. Safety first! To be the hostess with the mostess, it's a good idea to have a few kinds of condoms on hand to cater to all tastes and situations. Flavored condoms will be your best friend when it comes to oral sex. I shouldn't need to remind you that even oral sex poses dangerous health risks. And, for those less-than-savory clients, a flavoured condom can make the job a whole lot easier!

Next on my list is lube. You just gotta have lube! I'm guessing that since not all clients are going to resemble the likes of George Clooney, a little help in the lubrication department may be needed. And, lube is also a must when it comes to anal, should that be one of the services offered. Remember that there are different lubricants for different tastes and types of sex. Have some super-slick anal lubricant around for those backdoor clients and a whole lot of condom-safe lube for every other need. To mix it up and offer your favorite clients a little somethin' extra, warming lube is a nice touch.

And finally, some lingerie is always nice. Since the quality of your client base and extent of your success will depend on your image; looking good is important. I personally think that class-over-trash is the way to go when choosing your lingerie because ideally you want an upscale client base. Let's face it; having a lucrative business is key so do all that you can to brand the right kind of image for yourself. This being said though, there will always be that lawyer or doctor who loves it naughty and dirty, so maybe one piece of vampy red lingerie-or a dare-I-say slutty-costume may be worth having around...just in case. And, for those men who have a stocking fetish, a few pairs of sexy stockings and garters are sure to be a worthy investment to your new business venture in the oldest business in the world.

Does Your Partner Suck at Oral? Do You??
August 13, 2010

Let's face it; oral sex is an acquired taste that also requires a certain amount of skill. As much as we may love getting it, not everyone is keen on giving it and those who are may not always be all that great at it. Where am I going with this? South of your border! I've got some ideas and suggestions that will help you give and get better oral sex so that you can enjoy lickee-dee-doo like you should deserve to! So whether you're not happy with the quality or quantity of oral sex in your life; I've got what you need!

For Those Who Don't Like to Go Down

If you don't like to go down on your partner or are involved with someone who doesn't enjoy it; there are things you can get to make oral sex easier on the palette and a little less icky overall. Flavored lubes will be your best friend if taste is your only issue with giving oral. Pick up flavored lubes, which come in flavors ranging from fruity to chocolaty, and you've got yourself the tastiest and sexiest treat around! These can be used on dicks, pussies and anywhere else you may want to slip your tongue! Flavored lubes I recommend: Banana Dickalicious, Doc's Cocktails Cosmopolitan flavor, and Lick Me Licker in Tropical Fruit.

Another alternative for those who find oral sex less than appetizing is flavored condoms. This is an especially great one for those of you who are especially icked out by oral because it offers flavor PLUS a barrier. And, of course, this is also a safer way to have oral and protect yourself from STIs, including HPV which is commonly transmitted through oral sex. Using a condom on a guy is a no-brainer. If you want to use it to go down on a woman; snip it up the center, open it up and place it over her pussy for a safe and tasty oral session. I recommend picking up a few of the Tastee's 3 Packs in different flavors so you can mix it up a little or find your favorite flavor. They've got banana, chocolate, mint and even grape flavored Tastee's! Yum!

For Those Who Aren't Getting Enough Oral

If you're craving oral but there's none insight, have no fear because there are plenty of sex toys to give you the feel of soft lips or a talented tongue-all without needing to have an actual partner!

Guys can enjoy the sensation of a hot blow job using masturbators that are shaped like mouths or even love dolls. And for all you insatiable ladies there are tongue toys that simulate oral so well that you'll wonder if any human partner can actually top them!

For the guys, I recommend: Cyberskin Cyber Suck, Lori Mouth (Sexy red lips AND cheap!!), and Electronic Stroke Master.

For the gals, my picks for the best oral sex toys are: The Tongue 2 Vibe (turns out it does get better than the original! Who'd have thunk??!), Tongue Tickler (Cheap and oh so good thanks to a nose that nuzzles you just right!), and Wallbanger Waterproof Tongue.

Learn How to Stimulate the G-Spot Right Here, Right Now
July 22, 2010

I am so sick of hearing endless stories about guys lookin' like lost puppies when it comes to finding a woman's G-spot. Seriously, it's not rocket science! Your penis may not be naturally curved to hit the magic spot but that doesn't mean it's mission impossible! With a little know how and in some cases, the right toy, finding the G-spot is easy. So, read on and learn how to find the G-spot and stimulate it for an experience that will confirm your standing as Lover of the Century!

What You're Looking For

Poke around all you want but until you know what it is that you're feeling around for you'll run the risk of irritating her! First, you need to know that the G-spot isn't deep inside-a common misconception. The G-spot is just inside the vagina along the front wall. What does the G-spot feel like? It's a ridged little spot that is about the size of a quarter and feels a lot like the little ridges on the roof of your mouth. Go ahead and have a feel right now.

How to Find the G-Spot

Now that you have an idea of what you're looking for and approximately where it is, it's time to learn the best way to find the G-spot. Start by having your gal lie on her back with a pillow under her butt. Have her bend her knees and spread her legs apart enough for you to get in there. Next, take your index and middle fingers and insert them slowly inside of her so that the pads of your fingers are facing up. Remember that you don't need to go in too deep to find it. Move slowly and feel around for a small bumpy and kinda' spongy spot. Don't be afraid to ask for a little help and have her tell you if you hit a spot that feels "different". Pressing down on her lower abdomen over where your fingers are can help you to feel it easier.

What to Do When You Find Her G-Spot

The best way to stiulate the G-spot is to curl your fingers in that "come here" sorta' way and just keep repeating it against the G-spot. This is a super sensitive spot that doesn't always feel great right off the bat so be sure to be gentle and only increase the speed or pressure of your strokes as she wants you to. Continue on and BAMN! A squirt-fest awaits!!

Making it Even Easier

G-spot sex toys can make finding and stimulating the G-spot a lot easier so, if you're on a mission to discover and conquer this mysterious spot, then consider one of these G-spot sex toys:

The Butterfly G Bliss Vibe is perfect for G-spot fun because it's not only shaped right for hitting the spot but it also offers clit stimulation at the same time - a winning combo if you want maximum results! TIP: Stimulating the clit can help arouse a gal enough so that her g-spot feels more prominent and easier to find.

The Classix Slim G and the Crystal Chic G are both no fuss-no muss G-spot vibrators that are easy to maneuver and known for no-brainer G-spot stimulation.

The Curve is not only an elegant toy that she'll absolutely love but it's also shaped for easy G-spot fun thanks to its ideal curve and handy-dandy little loop handle so you can get a good grip while you play.

The Flexems Bendable Flame may look a little odd but boy, does it sure get the job done! It's very flexible and able to bend in ways that you could only dream of! Its flexibility makes it a sure thing when it comes to finding and stimulating her magical spot.


. Take your time
. Listen to her
. Don't be afraid to use a toy if your finger isn't quite hitting the spot right
. Use lots of lube!
. If she says she feels like she needs to pee, then chances are that you've found the spot!

For Those into Something A Little Different Than Most
March 27, 2010

I was trolling the Internet for some fun sex stuff and came across a forum dedicated to sex, fetishes and sex practices that are deemed "unusual". Being a sex writer who is curious and always looking to learn a little sumthin', I decided to peruse the posts on the forums and see what people are in to. I gotta tell you that it was quite the learning experience! I found out about fetishes and sex practices that I never knew existed!

Inspired by some and a little scared by others, I came back to Discreet Romance to check out the selection of DVDs to see if I could find any on some of sex practices and fetishes I came across. And, sure enough, I found all kinds. So for those of you who like to drum to a different beat and like to get real freaky, here is a list of some fetish and unusual sex DVDs that you might never have thought to look for here. And, if you're curious like I am, forget the whole 'curiosity killed the cat' saying and check out the videos that get your attention because you just may find a new turn-on!

Pony Play, Latex and More!

If you ever wanted a sex DVD on something that you thought was too unusual to find you may have just hit the porno jackpot with this post! Have a read through and see if any of these tickle your fancy.

Pony Play and Animal Role Play: For those who enjoy animal role play, check out these erotic DVDs: Gord's Pony Girls, Petgirl Divas, Harmony Riding Academy

Latex: If you just love your latex then these latex fetish videos are bound to be a treat: Lashed in Latex 02, Lashed in Latex 03, Dollmaker

Spanking: Whether you like a heavy hand or a sturdy paddle; if you're into spanking the you need to check out these spanking movies: Beach Girl Spankings, Resolved by Corporal Punishment (series)

Pantyhose and Stockings: Do stockings and nylons drive you wild? You're not alone! Check out these hot DVDs: Stocking Footed Heroines, Pantyhose Head, Silk Stockings

Foot and/or Shoe: Have a foot or shoe fetish? Check out these erotic DVDs: The Game is Afoot, Helpless in Heels, Belladonna's Foot Soldiers

And various Others...

Turns out that Discreet Romance has got you covered if you have a penchant for fat girls, older women, big boobs, teens, Asian sex and more! I had a sniff around and managed to find a little bit of everything!

Planning to Celebrate Valentine's Day Inside?
February 08, 2010

Depending where you live, Valentine's Day is often cold-very cold seeing as how it falls in the dead of winter. It's no surprise that many people opt to spend Valentine's Day inside and celebrate in the warmth and comfort of home instead of having to make your way through the cold and to a restaurant. So, for those who plan to celebrate Valentine's Day inside this year I thought you might enjoy a few ideas on how to make the most of being inside. While I'm sure you can come up with your own menu, I would like to offer a couple of suggestions on a little entertainment. No, I'm not talking about sex toys this time (click here for my previous post on sex toy suggestions). I'm talking about movies. Who doesn't like curling up on the sofa on a cold night for dinner and a DVD?

I've chosen some hot DVDs that are sure to help set the mood for a hot and dirty lil' Valentine's celebration at home. And don't worry; I know that not everyone is into the hardcore or fetish stuff so I've also included something with them in mind.
Lights! Remote! Action!

Celebrity Sex Tapes: You may not be able to get her to watch the usual porn with you but who can resist a peek at celebrity sex tapes? And while watching may start off as sheer curiosity, the sight of two (or more!) hot celebs going at it is bound to get her in the mood. Try one of these celebrity sex DVDs: 1 Night in Paris (Yes, this is Paris Hilton's sex tape), Kim Kardashian Superstar (Yes, one of Paris' pals), Amy Fisher Caught on Tape (Hey-she's a celebrity in her own right-isn't she?)

Sex Ed: You may think an instructional video is anything but hot, but the truth is that many of them use real couples having real sex AND someone who is not a fan of porno's may be a lot more likely to be cool with an instructional sex DVD since it is educational after all! And you can always test out what you've learned like good little students. *wink* My suggestions: Nina's Guide to Couple's Sexploration (I actually recommend ANY of Nina's videos when you're looking for real sex how-to's from a pro), The G-Spot & Female Ejaculation, Modern Kama Sutra

Fetish: For those of you that like to get freaky here are a few picks for a fetish-filled Valentine's celebration. I've included DVDs for those into feet, fat and more so there's a lil' sumthin' for everyone: Belladonna's Foot Soldiers, The Fetish Burglar, BBWs Gone Black, Gord's Pony Girls

Hardcore: For those of you who have no reservations about hardcore sex on the big screen, these videos are for you! I'm talking twin sisters, Jemma Jameson, anal sex-the works! Check out: Award Winning Sex Scenes, Two Hot Twins (Twin sister sex!), Deep Inside Jenna Jameson, Anal Full Nelson

Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual: For my gay, lesbian and bisexual readers I've chosen a few films to help make your Valentine's Day in better than any other. These DVDs are sure to set the tone for the rest of the night: Lesbian Babes 'N Toyland, Conflict of Interest, The Bartender, Last Girl Standing

Happy Valentine's Day!

Valentine's Day and Sex Toys - A Day for Newbies in Love and Lust
January 18, 2010

Time to Shop for Valentine's Day Gift Now!!!

When you spend as much time as I have writing about sex toys, talking to people about sex toys and then writing about sex toys some more, you find out all kinds of neat things. For instance, did you know that many couples use Valentine's Day as the day to first explore sex toys? It's true! From wanting to introduce their lover to sex toys or a couple who decides to venture out and try one for the first time, Valentine's Day seems to be the day of choice. And what a great day, no?

I decided that I would dedicate this post to those who are going to take their love to a whole new level this February 14th and give toys a whirl. So for you, this post will include a couple of helpful tips for newbies as well as suggestions for toys that are not only very Valentine-appropriate but also great for beginners.

Tips for Those Looking to Lose-or Take!-Sex Toy Virginity on February 14th

Whether one or both of you is trying toys for the first time, chances are that hearts will be racing and juices will be flowing, but even if you've got a Niagara Falls situation down there, it's always a good idea, no--a must--to have lubricant on hand. Lubes can be as fun to experiment with as the toys themselves thanks to flavored lubes, warming lubes and all kinds of lubes! My suggestion, get a sample-size bottle of each one that appeals to you and give 'em all a go!

My other tip is simply to take things slow. Seriously, the last thing you want to do is rush a first time experience with toys and risk making it the last. Besides, it is Valentine's Day! Take your time, be patient, keep an open mind and savor every delicious second.

Valentine's-Worthy Toys for Beginners

My first picks are a couple of vibrators that are great for beginners because they're not too big. They're not too small. They're just right! Add to that a pretty and very Valentiney appearance and you've got the perfect vibrators for your night of romance. My picks: Twisted Hearts vibrator, Silent Vibrations Flower vibrator.

If it's her first time with sex toys and you don't want to jump right in with a vibrator then these gems are the perfect start to what will hopefully be a long beautiful friendship with erotic toys; Breast Stimulator Hearts, Crystal Balls Hearts.

If this is the first time that you're both using sex toys as a couple and want something that's equally stimulating for the two of you, then you'll surely love these cock rings a deux; Climax Clicks Two Hearts Cock Ring, Heart On Wireless Love Maker.

For those who are a little more daring and looking to really heat things up this Valentine's Day with something a little different, I suggest: Don Wands Sweetheart Mushroom Tip Glass Dildo, Pink Heart Wrist Restraints, Love Beats Anal Beads.

Hope you enjoy my suggestions. I know I sure did! *wink*
Adrie's Valentine's Gift Suggestions for Lovers
January 10, 2010

Do you feel love in the air? I do! Valentine's Day is the next must-be-'ber-sexy special occasion on the way and my mind is already filled with some hot ideas to heat up a cold February night. I'll kick off my first of a few posts dedicated to the most romantic day of the year with exactly that'romance'in mind. For all of you that want the champagne, candlelight and rose petals I have got all kinds of sensual and romantic suggestions for you'none of which border on cheesy by the way!

By combining romance with a few sexier elements you're making sure that you get the right balance for both parties, because let's face it; even the least romantic of us tend to crave a little romance on Valentine's Day.
So, without further ado, I give you my suggestions of how to make this Valentine's Day the perfect combination of romantic and sexy...

Bed of Roses Deluxe Edition: As promised, those of you looking for the whole shebang of romance I suggest the Bed of Roses Deluxe Edition which really does give you all that you need for an unforgettable Valentine's Day. The silk rose petals mean THE experience without the rose-stained sheets and skin. And all of the other goodies, like the edible gourmet chocolate massage oil, rose bubble bath, candles and even an invitation to invite your lover to the experience of a lifetime make this one a no-brainer. And if you're on an especially tight budget you can always downgrade to the regular Bed of Roses kit which will still wow your lover.

Enchanted Evening: This kit is the Cadillac of romantic kits for lovers! This has got the scented silk rose petals, champagne flutes, chocolate body paint and massage oil which means all you need to get is the champagne and sit back for a night of lovin? like no other. A happy Valentine's Day indeed since your lover will feel like the luckiest person in the world and surely thank you over and over!

Tenderness & Passion Gift Set: If you've already got the right moves and THE plan for Valentine's Day, why not add a little tenderness and passion to the mix'with a hint of eroticism of course. This gift set gives you what you need for a night of sensual erotic play that will tickle all the senses; strawberry and champagne massage oil, edible Intimate kisses aphrodisiac oil, sweet snow edible body powder in a silky pouch, and a handcrafted feather tickler that will provide a sensation overload for an especially erotic slant to your romantic night.

Honeymoon for Lovers Kit: I'm a firm believer that everyday should feel like honeymoon'especially Valentine's Day! This kit has got it all and is the perfect mix of naughty and nice to make sure that every need is satisfied to the fullest. The goodies in this kit include: Strawberry flavored massage oil, a vibrator, almond body massage oil, raspberry sunshine love suds, feather, wooden power massager and a passion candle to ensure just the right ambience for your special night.

Any my final suggestion...

As a writer of erotica, a lover of the classics and just someone who likes sex in general, I suggest a little gift of bedtime reading. No, I'm not going to peddle my own stuff here--though one of my stories will be featured in a 'best of best' anthology in February. What I'm suggesting as the ideal addition to any Valentine's Plan is a copy of the Kama Sutra-but not just any copy'this gorgeous hardcover which features gorgeous paintings and is bound in a Japanese silk cover. It's absolutely decadent as far as books go and the content, well, you know what the Kama Sutra is all about.

A Time for Parties, Presents and Prophylactics
December 15, 2009


Wow -it's really coming down to crunch time now with less than 2 weeks to go until Christmas! We're right in the swing of party time, shoppingand wrapping gifts which is why I thought I would take a few moments out of my busy weekend to let you know about a few items that just might fit in well with all the XXX-Massing you've got goin' on right now.
These goodies should help you with everything from adding some just-naughty-enough touches to your Christmas parties to adding some spice to your gift giving.
It's Party Time!
Incorporate these fun little extras into your Christmas parties to take them up a notch on the funny/sexy meter.
Sexy Santa and Mrs. Clause Themed Party Items: This collection is soooo cute with Santa and his lady shakin' what their mamas gave 'em-naked! There are napkins, plates, party hats and cups. This means a whole lotta sexy cuteness and no clean up at the end of the night!
Santa Mooning Party Items: Yes, you read right - Santa mooning for all your guests to see. The guys should love this one since all guys seem to find mooning as funny as farting and all. You've got all you need for a funny and easy night here too with napkins, plates, cups and party hats.
My Fave Hostess Gift and Secret Santa Ideas
What's a Christmas party without a cute gift for your hostess or a funny gift for to give when playing Secret Santa?! These are super fun and super cheap ideas that are sure to put a smile on someone's face this Christmas! And by "super cheap" I mean all under $10!

Santa Vibe: I love this one because it does double duty as a gag gift and a sexy one for a friend/hostess/colleague/partner who happens to have a sense of humor. It's a 5 inch vibrator with a Santa face and hat at the 'head'!
Ben Wa Gold Balls: These babies come in a crystal-ish case which just makes them look even more festive! Great hostess gift.
Candy Cane Waterproof Vibe: This super festive vibe is safe for play in and out of the water!

The Sexiest and Funniest Gift Wrapping
I can honestly say that one of my favourite things about Christmas is the wrapping of the gifts. I just love giving gifts that are wrapped in a way that really makes them stand out against the others under the tree. Being able to add a little sex to the holidays is always a nice plus! Check out the naughty wrapping I found.
Bondage Santa Gift Wrap: Great choice for your naughtiest of friends! Tell them they've been really naughty with this wrapping paper that features Santa gettin' told who's the boss by a scantily clad Mrs. Claus!
Santa Dancing with Topless Ho's Gift Wrap: Yeah, that's right - gift wrap featuring a pervie Santa dancing with his topless Ho's...Ho's...Ho's!!
Dancing Santa in G-String Gift Bag: This bag lets you see Santa in his practically-naked splendor! His belly ain't the only thing that jiggles like a bowl full of jelly!
Christmas Condoms
I couldn't let you off without a little schpiel on the importance of safe sex before the holidays. After all, what else are you gonna do to keep warm over Christmas break??
I've said it a billion times and I'll say it again - SAFE SEX CAN BE SEXY!!! So, to help you tie safe sex in with the Christmas season I have selected all my favorite safe sex stuff to add to people's stockings, keep in your teeny-tiny little party clutch and even fill a bowl with at your Christmas party.
Christmas Condoms on a Stick Display: Condoms for your party guests don't get any more festive than these my friends!
Durex Love Condoms: This is one of my favorite brands and it's Christmas so why not give a lil' love! This 4 pack is perfect for stuffing a stocking and your partner!
Hope these ideas help make your Christmas season a whole lot more festive!
25 Sexy Christmas Gift Ideas
December 02, 2009

Happy December Everyone! I love this time of year! I start feeling all Christmassy and really get into the spirit of giving. To help you get into the spirit of giving as well I've compiled my list of 25 sexy gift ideas for Christmas. This list contains something to tickle everyone's fancy with hot gift ideas for all sexes. It also contains gifts that range in price and size so that you can use it to help you pick some sexy stocking stuffers as well as that piece de resistance that will really rock someone's world this Christmas.

Adrie's Top 25 Sexy Gift Picks for Christmas 2009

1. I Wouldn't Fuck Her with Your Pussy DVD: To be honest, this one tops my list for the title alone! It's just too good!

2. Lip Lov: This lip balm will let you give kisses that deliver erotic pleasure to every part you kiss. He'll never wanna leave the mistletoe!

3. Kandies Love Cage for Him: Always a fan of combining yummy and sexy, I couldn't resist this candy cock cage!

4. Trouser Snake Bikini for Him: He'll laugh all through Christmas dinner after receiving his very own trouser snake undies! Great stocking stuffer or gag gift for sure!

5. Queen Size Bra, Skirt & G-string Set: You and your sexy queen will love this playful lingerie set with mess and fringe.

6. Pulsating Ruby Thong: If you've been reading this blog for awhile you'll know that I' a big fan of discreet fun, so these pulsating panties in Christmas red are definitely a fave! (Wear them to Christmas dinner for a dirty little secret all your own!)

7. Chocolate Aphrodisiac Oil: You can never go wrong giving a chocolate treat for Christmas!

8. Chocolate Tease Foreplay Game: Chocolate AND foreplay for Christmas? Yes please!!

9. Climax Clicks Lonely Hearts Cock Ring: This is the ultimate in giving because it gives pleasure to the both of you. (And it's cute!)

10. Kama Sutra Weekender Kit: Christmas falls on a weekend this year so what better way to enjoy it then with some sensual strawberry fun? And I'm a HUGE fan of the Kama Sutra line of goodies.

11. X-Rated Coupon Booklet: Still one of my absolute favorite sexy stock stuffers to give and receive!

12. Astro Plated Pink Mini Vibe: It's small, pretty and capable of an intense orgasm so it's an obvious pick for my sexiest Christmas gifts list!

13. Four Seasons Ice Condoms: These make things feel all cool and tingly! And what's sexier than giving sex safe for Christmas??

14. Fuck Me Silly Anal Beads: Again, love the name! It's also great for anal-play newbies.

15. The Accommodator: So freaky looking but still such an awesome idea! What's better than effortless penetration AND oral sex at the same time?!

16. Candy Cane Glass Dildo: How festive! A candy cane-shaped glass dildo is always a great idea for Christmas! Use it as decor and no one will know the difference!

17. Bedroom Party Pack 3: Everyday is a good day for a party in the bedroom-especially Christmas day! And with this many toys in one kit it certainly will be!

18. Kobe Tai Anal Adventure: Give the gift of anal adventure this Christmas. I dare you.

19. Nipple & Clit Sucker Set: What gal doesn't want her nipples and clit sucked for Christmas?

20. Belladonna Cherry Bomb Vibe: I'm a fan of both Belladonna and fun in the water so this waterproof vibe is a must have as far as I'm concerned.

21. Berman Mistress Kit: This is a hot little kit for couples who wanna ease their way into some light bondage play.

22. Feather Tickler: This feather tickler feels INCREDIBLE on every inch of your body and it's under $5! Definitely can't go wrong with this one!

23. Cleopatra Clit Clip: What a sexy stocking stuffer! This sparkly little clit clip is bound to make the both of you smile.

24. Adult Play Pail: I love the idea of adults having gifts they can play with on Christmas morning...or maybe night. This play pail is full of lotions and potions for your XXX-Massy play time!

25. Jack Rabbit Waterproof Vibrator: I will forever sing the praises of the Jack Rabbit - the original Rabbit vibrator! This one is a new and waterproof version of the tried and true favorite so you can enjoy it during bath time too. LOVE IT!!

That concludes my 25 favorite sexy gifts for Christmas 2009. Hope you've managed to find some ideas for yourself or your lover this Christmas.

Tricks and Treats: Picking Your Halloween Costume
October 08, 2009

Tricks and Treats: Picking Your Halloween Costume

While I'm a firm believer that it doesn't need to be Halloween for you to play a little game of dress up-and dress off-the day certainly does inspire more people to get in on the fun. Thankfully we've got more in the way of selection than a sheet with two holes cut out for eyes. These days costumes are so much more than that and can be used to make people laugh or make them hot! Adult costumes can be quirky, funny or just downright sexy which puts a whole new spin on Halloween for those of us who are too old to go trick-or-treating.

Choosing an adult Halloween costume is easy thanks to the sizes that also include queen sizes for the sexy bigger gals. The hardest part will be figuring out what you wanna be which is why it isn't too early to start thinking about it and checking out your options.

A good thing to keep in mind when picking adult costumes is your audience. If you're wearing it to an adult party or for you a private party for two, then anything goes as long as you're with a group of like minded peeps who are open-minded and cool with a little sex appeal. If you'll be spending time at a function with kids, then you'll probably need to keep things somewhat PG-rated when it comes to your choice, or at least wear a wrap or cover of some kind till the kids go beddy-bye. This doesn't mean that you have to forgo an adult site like this one for you costume though! Not at all because the selection here ranges from tame to super-sexy so you can get what you need as far as adult costumes go.

And to show you that I've compiled a little list of my favorite adult costumes for Halloween ranging from tame to hot and then sizzlin'. You should note though that even my tame selections are still sexy but without being overt, indecent or even remotely offensive!

Tame Costume Picks

Witch Costume: This witch costume comes with a sexy form-fitting dress with ruching in all the right places as well as a hat. Add your own touch with sexy shoes or boots, accessories and even a broom and you're all set for Halloween amongst peeps of all ages-though I can still guarantee you a few cat calls along the way!

Radically Retro: This tight pink ensemble is groovy and sexy at the same time. It's got some well-placed cutouts so that you get to show loads of skin while still covering what matters. Add some light-up heels or super high platforms and you're groovin'! This would also be perfect with a huge afro!

Eskimo Girl: This costume is really cute, unique and short enough to still be somewhat sexy. You can add a stiletto boot to kick up the sex appeal or pair it with some furry boots to really play up the Eskimo girl theme. Either way you'll look adorable in this one that is kid and uptight-adult friendly.

Hot Costume Picks

Black and Red Devil: This is evil at its finest! This tight fitting black and red dress with a lace-up bodice and fishnet sleeves is a sexy way to play up the pointy ears, tail and pitchfork. Naughty has never looked so hot!

Beer Girl: No blue-blooded guy can resist a sexy beer wench-especially not when she's in a green ensemble that shows off her tits, legs and ass like this one! And the matching thong cleverly hidden beneath it all is definitely a hot lil' bonus. Add a beer mug and you'll have every man in the room dropping at your service!

G.I. Girl Camouflage: You'll do your country proud in this barely-there camouflaged getup! Tight little crop top, tiny boy shorts and a hat make this officially HOT! Add a pair of aviator sunglasses and some sexy high boots and you'll have the boys standing at attention in more ways than one!

Sizzilin' Costume Picks

Bedroom Nurse: This is one sizillin' costume that should be worn outside the bedroom at your own risk! It's tight, white and right for anyone who wants to show off their every delicious curve this Halloween and end the night with a game of naughty doctor. Comes in regular and plus sizes.

Club Bunny: What's sexier than a Playboy Bunny?? One with maximum curves to show off! This one comes in regular and plus sizes and is bound to look hot on anyone with the confidence to wear it. It's got everything a Playboy Bunny costume should have; sexy bodysuit, satin bunny ears, collar with bowtie and fluffy tail. Sizzilin' indeed!

Red Hot Devil: This one is definitely hotter than the devil costume mentioned in the previous section! This skin-tight red lame dress with sexy cutouts and a hemline that borders on evil also comes with ears, tail and pitchfork to top off the look. Who said Hell's a bad place when you got devils this hot!
Sex Machines - Not A DIY Project
June 08, 2009

On the prowl for some fun and interesting sex toy news I came across a news article about a woman in Maryland who had to be airlifted to a hospital after sustaining injuries caused by a homemade sex toy device. Wanna know what the contraption was? Get ready to grab your crotch and cringe as you hang on for dear life! They'her partner and her'attached a sex toy to a high powered saber saw blade! Fucken ouch!!! Turns out that the blade cut through the toy'you can imagine the rest?

Yes it's true, only a jackass would think to place a saw anywhere near the vagina'or maybe it was her anus? But I guess when you're all aroused at the idea of trying something new it's easy to lose all common sense with the blood all having drained out of the brain and into the genitals and all. And, I guess you can't really blame a couple for wanting to try out the latest high powered sex toy craze ' sex machines, but thankfully there are easier and much safer ways of doing this!

So for those of you looking to mix things up and just jonsing to try out one of the sex machines without needing a trip to the emergency room, I thought I would go over some of the available sex machines so that you could get all the excitement without the risk of injury! And while some of these may seem a tad pricey it certainly is worth every last freaking penny if it means coming out of it with hundreds of orgasms'and your life!

Three High Powered Sex Toys That Won't Kill You!

Ceasar 2.0 Love Machine
: This baby is a hot ride for both men and women because it comes with a Cyberskin dildo and a Cyberskin vaginal masturbator! The flat base is designed to keep it in place between your mattress and box spring so that you can fuck or get fucked to your heart's content without having to worry about a thing! And it's on sale too!

Fetish Fantasy Inflatable Sex Machine: This is extremely affordable'even more so than any homemade contraption! It is just as the name states ' inflatable and it can hold up to 300lbs so you can ride it alone or with a friend! And since it is inflatable and flexible, you can use it in all of your favorite positions so you get a whole lotta bang for your buck!

Love Machine: This one has gotten some mixed reviews but I thought it worth mentioning anyway. It is the closest in design to the most commonly seen sex machines in the videos that we've all seen (whether we admit it or not!). It is simple and easy to use and a lot more affordable than it was when it was first introduced on the market. It offers pulsing, thrusting and vibrating at different intensities which means getting' off will be easy!

So there you have it ' sex machines for your pleasure that won't harm or maim you in any way'except by maybe causing an orgasm-induced coma-like state as a sex toy should!

And though it should go without saying; please oh please leave the sex machine making to the pros and DO NOT place any sharp objects in or even around the genitals!!!! Well, at least not those sharp enough to kill you.

It's Bachelorette Party Season!
March 27, 2009

Summer is only a couple of months off which means that wedding season is almost upon us. Sure, people get married year round, but the summer months, thanks to their sunny days and warm breezes, seem to be the most popular time to get hitched. While the actually weddings may still be a couple months off, we are now just starting bachelorette/stagette party season! Woot woot!

If you're in charge of planning a friends bachelorette or are the bride-to-be and are planning it yourself, there are a few goodies that you'll need to get before the big day'by big day I mean your last night to party like a single girl! Along with some goodies to make your special day even more special (again, by special day I mean bachelorette party day!) there are a few other tips I can suggest to make it all you dreamed and more.

First, you'll need to choose the venue. For those who are having a massive wedding, chances are that you'll need ample space for your equally large single gal soiree like a hall or at the very least a party room at someone's condo. For a smaller crowd; you can start the festivities at home and then make your way to a bar for some dancing and misbehaving'if you can tear yourself away from the stripper. I know, so clich' but yet sooooo much fun!

Once you've chosen the venue, then a little decorating is in order! It ain't a bachelorette party without some naughty decorations and penis party favors! Here are some of my recommendations;

Bachelorette-Friendly Decorations: Bachelorette Balloons, Bachelorette Foil Pecker Streamers, Bachelorette Party Letter Banner

Naughty Party Items: Pecker Inspector Badge, Pecker Plates, Sexy Wine Holder

Sexy Gift or Loot Bag Ideas: Pecker Earrings/Necklace Set, Bachelorette Party Pops, Bachelorette Tiaras (8pc)

Games: Stick It Bachelorette Party Game (It's HYSTERICAL!!!), Willy Whack It Pi'ata, Inflatable Dicky Ring Toss

A Lil' Sumthin' to Take To The Bar: Bachelorette Bar Challenge, Bachelorette Dare Dice, Bachelorette Condom Veil

Strapped for Time or Just Lazy'

For you I would recommend one of the many Bachelorette Party Kits that come with everything you need, like; decorations, cups, plates, napkins, favors, games and more!

Here are three suggestions that really do have it all so that the whole planning thing can be a total no-brainer for the hostess who is strapped for time or in need of some serious help; Bachelorette Party Box, Bachelorette Party Kit Girls Night Out and a book that will take you through the planning step-by-step; How to Host A Bachelorette Party or Bachelorette Party Planner & Memento Book.

One Final Tip...

Don't forget that sex toys like mini vibrators and bullets also make some really cool party favors! And, if you're looking for something to giveaway as a prize, a rabbit vibe is ALWAYS a hot choice! Your guests will thank you ;)

Party on ladies!!

Attention Ladies: How to Make HIS Valentine's Day
January 29, 2009

Listen up ladies! I know that you fully expect your man to have something special planned for Valentine's Day but who says that you can't take a little initiative and do something for him? He'll probably go the romantic route for your surprise since that is what women are always asking for, but you on the other hand should take the naughty road with your surprise and give him the sort of February 14th that all guys crave.

Your brain is probably already racing a mile a minute trying to think of what hot and unique treat you could possibly give your macho man to make him love Valentine's Day as much as you do. Well rest that pretty little head of yours and read on for some great ideas that take all of the guesswork out of planning for you. But before we get onto what some of these goodies are, let me suggest you set the mood right by wearing something sexy. Yeah, it may seem clich? but wearing some sexy lingerie is a great start for both of you because he'll love seeing you in it and you'll love the way you feel in it which will get you primed for some lovin?!( I recommend the Lace Halter Babydoll w/Thong in red'very sexy! Comes in queen sizes too!)
Now onto some Valentine's-perfect treats for you and your lover.

Kama Sutra Kits: These are deliciously scented and flavored goodies that re incredibly luxurious and an absolute pleasure for the both of you. The kits come with all kinds of oils, lotions and accessories to help you create a sensual oasis wherever you spend Valentine's Day.

Be sure to check out: Bedside Lover's Tool Kit, Earthly Delights Tin, Love Essentials Kit

Adult Games and Novelties: What better way to entice your guy then to combine two things you know he'll love; the thrill of competition that comes from playing games and sex! There are a few adult games available that are sure to get your guy 'up' and ready for a playful night and they also happen to be on sale right now!

My game picks: Lust, Romance Roulette, Kinky Bingo

My Valentine-Friendly Faves: I am a HUGE fan of naughty IOUs and coupons that allow a lover to redeem everything from a sensual massage to some oral with an ice cube! You can surprise them by placing them on his plate before your Valentine's Day dinner or leave them under his pillow!

Try these sexy booklets: X-Rated Coupon Booklet, Triple X Vouchers and the coolest of all; Lotto Sex Tickets (scratch tickets with a sex position in each box!!)

One Last One for the Road?
I could NOT resist mentioning this one because it is inexpensive, sexy and just such a great idea! What better gift to give him this Valentine's Day that you, right? You can wrap you up real nice using 'Surprise I'm The Present' which is a life-sized gift box that you can get into'naked or in some hot lingerie'and pop out of our have him open. MEOW!

25+ Ideas to Make This Your Sexiest Christmas Yet
December 11, 2008

So what if Santa says that you shouldn't be naughty! What fun would Christmas be without a little somethin' naughty thrown into the mix?? So to help you make this a truly XXX-Mas, I've got some super hot suggestions that will get you and your lover on your way to having the merriest Christmas ever! With everything from sex toys to lingerie -- some items for less than $5 -- there's no excuse for you when it comes to giving great gifts this holiday season!

Whether you're a fan of the season or a bit of a hum-bugger; there is no denying that certain things remind you of Christmas, like the color red. Red is the color of Santa's suit, Rudolph's nose and holly berries. And in honor of this I have compiled my list of the 25 sexiest red goodies I could find that are great for giving and will surely help you receive'if you know what I mean. *wink*

25 Red Hot Christmas Gift Ideas

In the spirit of goodwill and all that, I have decided to go the extra mile and divide them up into categories to help you decide who might enjoy what. Who'd have thunk it ? X-mas shopping made sexy AND easy!

Berry Colored Bondage Fun

Captivity Ankle Cuffs: They are red and furry. It doesn't get more Christmassy than that!

Beginner Ball Gag: Nothing says Merry Christmas like a ball gag for the one you love to tease and torture!

14 inch Red Whip: Whether your playmate likes it gentle or rough, this red rubber whip is sure to please.

Leather Paddle w/ black fur: Why let Santa give your naughty one a lump of coal when you can give them a nice spanking with this red leather paddle?!

Red & White Fluffer Tickler: The color, the fluff, the tickles'enough to make him/her feel all warm and fuzzy this X-mas!

Mini Toys to Stuff Her'Stocking

Diva Mini Push Button Red: This powerful vibe is sexy, small and perfect for her stocking.

Finger Buzz Red: Strap this one to your finger for some clit action that will make Christmas Eve ' and every other eve for that matter ' hotter than ever!

Micro-G Vibe Ruby: A G-spot orgasm in her stocking! Enough said.

Mini Ladybug: It's super-cute and powerful enough to get a clit feeling all kinds of Christmas glee.

Pocket Rocket Holiday Edition: A true classic and not just for pockets! Great in a stocking too!

For The Anal Gift Giver

Bendy Beads: Red and flexible means perfect for some backdoor holiday fun!

Double Pleasure Beads: It's like giving two gifts in one!

7 Function Tease & Please: Vibration, pulsation and escalation! Oh my!

Gumdrops Ace of Spades: Fun to ride and easy on the eyes. A merry X-mas indeed.

Men's Pleasure Wand: Perfect for men who enjoy bum-play or are looking to experiment this holiday season.

Deck Their Halls With Sexy Wear

Sequined Panty & Pasties: Especially great if one of your gifts to him is a saucy striptease?

Chiffon Boxer With Studded Trim: Dress him up and take him nowhere but the bedroom!

Ruffle Up Thigh High Stockings: Festive and sexy in and out of the bedroom.

Emroidered Mesh Babydoll w/ Thong: Pretty lingerie is always a 'do' when it comes to Christmas gifts.

Zipper Shorts: Unwrap him like a present by one pull of the zipper!

Random and UNIQUE Goodies

Clone-A-Willy Candle: The warm glow of a candle is synonymous with Christmas, but why not heat things up even more with one molded after his penis! A truly personal touch.

Santa Pecker Pen: It's under $5 and oh so Christmassy. Great for anyone with a sense of humor.

Red Vibrating Lips Sponge: Bath time will never be the same after this Christmas!

Vibro Lori Mouth: The only red thing on this toy is her lips. Think of how hot she'll look wrapped around a delicious cock?

Big Red Pump: A penis pump is a gift that will keep on giving to both you and your partner(s).

Now that you know what to get for those on your 'naughty' list, here are some extras to add even more of a festive yet sexy flair to your holidays.

Naughty gift wrap and gift bags are the perfect way to get your gifts ready for giving.

Christmas-themed party accessories will make any holiday party a fun and festive affair fit for openminded adults.

Holiday novelty items are great as stocking stuffers or even gag-gifts for your party guests.

Mini vibrators make great add-ons to your wrapped presents and even your cocktails! Check out my very first blog for some x-rated crafty holiday ideas.

Merry Christmas!


The Deets on Phthalate-Free Products
November 24, 2008

You've surely seen the headlines recently warning about 'Toxic Sex Toys' or 'Killer Vibrators', etc. This has been due to a study that found a link between phthalates, which are the chemicals used to soften hard plastics and several health risks. This study sparked a lot of interest in the topic of sex toys as well as several other studies with confusing results, so here's the deal: phthalates may not be good for you, so do your best to avoid them.

Thankfully there are many toys that are already phthalate-free and makers of sex toys are being pressured to stop using the harmful chemicals all together, but until that happens, here are some facts about the phthalate free toys.

One way to tell if the goodies in your toy box contain phthalates is through smell. Those that do contain the chemical have a very strong plastic or chemical odor when you first buy them that tends to stick around over some time. Also, the jelly toys are the ones which most often contain the chemicals. This is not to say that you should toss out your beloved toy just yet. I recommend using a condom on them instead which is a good idea with jelly toys anyway as they are difficult to disinfect because of their porous surface.

Reading the packaging before you buy your toy will tell you if it's phthalate-free or not. These days thanks to all of the hype; many toys makers are pleased to include a big 'Phthalate-Free' or "PR" emblem, front and centre. Sometimes a little digging may be required, so read the ingredients, ask our great sales staff or you can even drop me an email! I would loooooove to answer any of your sex toy questions! Too shy? Check out our forum and see what you can find out through other naughty shoppers!

Discreet Romance carries an amazing selection of phthalate-free toys in all shapes and sizes for your naughty and safe pleasure. Some of my favorite phthalate-free goodies are:

- 'Softees' Collection by Swedish Erotica
- Devilish Desire (AWESOME vibe!)
- Toys by Tantus (They have EVERYTHING from anal toys to gag balls!)
- Pipedream's Basix Line ( Dildos and Dongs and Vibes for every taste!)

There are also toys made from some other materials that are phthalate-free, so now may be the perfect opportunity to try out an entirely new and delicious feel! For instance, glass toys are inexpensive but oh so luxurious! (Check out my blog on glass toys for help choosing the hottest glass toys!) And the adorable and ultra-effective Rub My Duckie series by Big Teaze Toys are also phthalate-free.

With so many safe and sexy options, there's no need to worry which just leaves you more time for enjoying!

Say Hello to My Little Friend: Introducing Him to Anal Pleasure
November 11, 2008

I've written about anal play on a few occasions now and even touched on the topic of bum play for guys. After giving it a little more thought, I think it's time to really dive in and cover all you need to know about introducing your guy into the wonderful world of backdoor fun.

I know that a lot of guys cringe at the idea of having anything slipped into their butt, but truth be told; a little bum action on a guy can feel incredible, if approached with care of course. So the goal of this week's blog? To give you a few tips that will help you get your guy started on some super-hot bum play and open up a whole new world of orgasmic fun that'll have him screaming your name like never before!

Getting' Started

Tread carefully. You can be sure that your guy is bound to be a little gun shy at first if this is his first experience with anal play, so from the moment you bring it up to the second that you begin; you need to move slowly, gently and carefully to avoid bruising anything from his body to his sex drive!

Use lube'lots of it! This is a super tight and super sensitive spot we're talking about so lube will help to make things go as smoothly as can be! Use it on your finger or small anal toy as well as the anus.

Have a bath. I suggest this for a couple of reasons. First it'll help him to relax and second, being as clean as can be will help with any fears that either of you may have regarding the cleanliness issue since this is a guy's ass we're talking about.

Help him relax and get aroused. The more turned on he is, the more relaxed his backside will be so take the time to get him really tuned on before hand pulling out all his favorite spots, like kissing, stroking or even blowing.

Get comfortable. First let him figure out which position he's most comfortable in, whether on his stomach or on his back or even on all fours. Then, you should find the best angle for you to get the job done right! You need easy access so you can avoid poking all the wrong spots!

Anal play will feel best if enjoyed at the same time as other stimulation. If you pleasure him anally while stroking his penis or even while going down on him, you're sure to really blow his mind! So, once you've gotten the hang of penetrating his anus with your finger or a toy, work on multitasking by continuing to play with his bum while you jerk him off or go down on him.

Another tip in terms of technique is to know that there isn't one universal move that just does it for every guy. Listen to him while you touch him and you'll know what feels best for him. And if in doubt'ask!

Great Toys for Your Bum Tease Debut
If you'd rather not use a finger or maybe have already and are lookin' to move onto something new, there are loads of great anal toys on the market that are not only made with beginners in mind, but also ones that are NOT exact replicas of cocks which may have your 'straight' partner running for the hills! Check out these that would be ideal for your man.

Anal Invader CD

Tushy Twister

Swizzle Stick

Vivid Renegades

Beginners Butt Plug

My Lube Picks
I can't stress enough how important lubrication is when indulging in bum play! The more the better! So to make things a little easier, I've chosen my favorite lubes for bum fun. Some are just great lubes and others work not only to lubricate but also to desensitize so that you can minimize any pain or discomfort that may happen the first time that you explore the dark side, so to speak.

Anal Blue

Anal Ease

Elbow Grease (try regular or hot!)

Fruity Booty

Pjur Analyse Me

Now that you've got the best tools and the advice; it's time to get in there and introduce him to a whole new kind of pleasure!

Happy Probing!!

Sexy Ways to Woo Her
October 02, 2008

There's a fine line between sexy and trashy and depending on your gal's taste; crossing that line could happen before you know it. If you want to give her a sexy gift but don't want to risk offending her or coming across as a selfish perv, then consider these tips.

3 Tips for Staying On the Right Side of Sexy

Remember the gift is for her and not you. The biggest mistake men make when choosing gifts for their partners is selecting something based on their own tastes and wants. You may like the idea of her dressed in a naughty schoolgirl outfit, but give that to her as a gift and you're likely to get slapped and depending on her mood; accused of being a jerk who wants a younger woman! Think of her style and taste and you should be fine.

Be subtle if you're trying to get her to open up to something new. Just because you're all gung-ho about the idea of trying BDSM, that doesn't mean that she is. So instead of opting for full-on bondage gear worthy of its own dungeon; try a beginner's kit or one of the many more 'vanilla' versions available.

Think pretty and if that fails, then think pink. There's something about pink that can make the most hardcore sex toys all of a sudden look dainty and cute. Even that mammoth 12inch dildo can enlist a high-pitched 'awwww' when bought in pink! So if you're lost for what to buy for your gal; consider a pretty pink toy to appeal to her girly side.

For those of you that will have trouble resisting the urge to buy something that is more for you than for her when left to your own devices; I give you my list of things made with the ladies in mind. Stray from the list and you risk the wrath of an upset and offended woman. Not good.

Some Sexy Things Just for Her

Panties: You can never go wrong with a pair of pretty panties and thankfully they come in regular and queen size. My pick would be one of the pearl thongs for a unique and decadent gift.

Body Jewelry: This is a great choice because you don't have to worry about sizes. Just be sure to choose something that you really believe she'd wear and enjoy. A clit ring may not be everyone's cup of tea so maybe opt for a navel ring (they have clip-ons for those who aren't pierced!)

DVDs: No, this is not your chance to get that 'Mexicunts' collection you've been dreaming of! Depending on her tastes, she'll likely enjoy some of the porn geared at women. The Nina Hartley collection is instructional, but a fave among the girly crowd.

Erotic Books: Women are naturally more turned on by mental stimulation than visual which is why erotica for women is so popular. A copy of the Kama Sutra with paintings as opposed to a really graphic book of positions is also a good way to go.

Pretty Sex Toys: I'll narrow it down to a select few, but you can click here for a blog dedicated to my favorite pretty and pink toys. My first pick is the Deluxe Rabbit Pearl because this vibe can coax and orgasm out of a gal in seconds! It is definitely made just for her. My other two picks are Emma's Garden Lilly Pink and Passion Flower which is so cute that it doesn't even look like a vibrator!

Romantic Gifts: When all else fails then think romance. There are kits made for lovers and romance and they take all the guess work out of what to buy because it's all in there! Check out: Bed of Roses Deluxe, Enchanted Evening or the Romantic Gift Set.

So now that you know what to give her in order to make her really happy and feel special, I suppose it's okay to tell you that in the end; taking the time to choose something just for her will benefit you too since she'll be all raring to show her gratitude for the thoughtful gift. Now how's that for incentive!

Some of The Most Ridiculous Looking Toys That Will Get You Off Right!
February 20, 2008

Though I am a lover of all things sexy; I will be the first to admit that some sex toys just look downright ridiculous upon first glance and some of the names are over-the-top enough to make anyone roll their eyes. For some; a sweet little bunny face, a dolphin or a beaver do absolutely nothing in terms of arousal and may even illicit a chuckle or two, but, don’t let the appearance of some of these toys fool you and do take the time to figure out what purpose they serve because chances are that you will be very pleasantly surprised by what these odd looking items will do in terms of vamping up your sex life and getting you off!

I’m going to share with you some of the strangest yet most amazing creations in adult toys that I have come across so that you can save yourself some time and heat things up with some of the greatest toys around… once you stop laughing of course.

The first one is the SnugglePuss—the name does it to me every time! This toy not only has a name that can’t help but give you a giggle but it’s also shaped much like a lobster claw and isn’t particularly sexy in appearance, but let me tell you that in terms of function; this toy is the bomb! When inserted properly, this bendy and nubby toy rubs your G-spot just right!

The next one is the Honey Bunny Cock Ring. Personally; I think the name and adorable appearance are sweet selling points, but upon showing this one to a man friend; the reaction I got was a mixture of laughter and disgust. He just could not get over the fact that this toy looked like a girly pink pet! Well let me tell you that I offered it to him to test out with his girlfriend and within a day he was singing a very different tune! Don’t let the cute exterior or name mislead you here because this bunny offers a serious vibe that managed to get them both off.

While we’re on the subject of bunnies; I will admit that I was immediately a skeptic of the Rabbit Vibrators in spite of the hype brought on by Sex and the City. I just couldn’t see how a vibe with a bunny on it could be sexier than one shaped like a big beautiful penis, but being the sport that I am; I tested it out in the name of research and was turned to putty when the Deluxe Rabbit Pearl managed to make me orgasm within mere seconds of turning it on! It is to this day my favorite vibrator—bunny face, pearls and all!

Finally, the one that to this day has gotten the biggest belly laugh out of me has also proven to be one of the greatest inventions in sex toys ever as far as I’m concerned! I’m talking about the Accommodator which is a strap-on dildo that straps on to the face. Yes, the face.

The first time I laid eyes on this one I swear that I was rolling on the floor in hysterics within seconds, but once I managed to get back up and the stitch in my side from laughing so hard disappeared; I was able to really get the sheer genius of it all. This super-dildo straps on to the chin and is inserted into your partner while you go down on them. Hello! Penetration and licky-dee-doo? An amazing combo indeed! This toy—as odd as it looks—can be used on men and women. Genius. Absoulutely genius.

Can’t get over how strange/funny/ridiculous they look? No worries; just close your eyes, lie back and enjoy!
A Happy Valentines Day For The Sweet Or The Sinful!
February 01, 2008

News Alert! For this Valentines month, all US orders over $100 will receive free upgrade from UPS Ground to UPS 2nd day air, offer ends February 20th

Valentines Day is coming which means that it’s time to start thinking of ways to celebrate your love and lust… or either or! Valentines Day is the one day of the year where nooky is pretty much guaranteed, so why not take the time to make it as memorable as possible—so memorable that in fact that you’ll be thanked for it for days and days after the 14th is long gone. *wink*

Thinking a little outside the box is all it takes to make it an extra special day because after all; there is more to Valentines Day than just roses and chocolate! Sexing up the day will be appreciated whether after a romantic dinner or as a start to a long and luscious day of nothing but slippery sex, and since we get that thinking outside the box doesn’t come naturally to everyone; for you especially, there are products to help you score… brownie points with your mate on this special day!

I suppose we should cover the more romantic options first since romance is on everyone’s mind when it comes to this day, but don’t worry my fellow I-heart-non romantic-sex friends; I will get to some great options for us as well!

Bed of Roses: It’s no big surprise that rose-pedals strewn allover a bed are the ultimate in setting the scene for a very romantic night of passion, but have you ever tried real rose pedals on a bed? They stain the sheets!! So opting instead for “Bed Of Roses” will get you all of the same oohs and ahhs without the ruined sheets. This kit comes with 100 scented silk rose pedals, a tea light and an invitation card for your mate! And a bonus: it’s on sale!
Earthly Delights Gift Tin: Nothing says romance like taking the time to pamper your loved one which is why this set is the best. Kama Sutras products are like no others in terms of quality and this set gives you all that you need for a sexy and slippery day or night of sensual fun with the power of aromatherapy on your side! The Oil of Love warms your skin, the almond oil and massage cream tickle your senses and are the only layer that should be between the skin of you and your lover, while the honeysuckle body dust sweetens the deal and your skin! Sensuality at its best.

Honeymoon For Lovers Kit: What better day to relive a honeymoon than Valentines Day?? This kit covers romance and sex at its most delicious with strawberry flavored massage oil, a 5 inch vibrator, a good ol’ fashioned wooden massager, some almond massage oil and Raspberry Sunshine Love Suds for some bath play as well as some feathers to further tickle the senses… and then some!

Erotic Love Notes: These 69 heart-shaped notes allow you to surprise your lover with all kinds of sexy suggestions! Slip one in his briefcase for a mid-day treat or leave one under her pillow for a wake up she’ll never forget! Great not only for Valentines Day but for any other day as well.

Now some suggestions for those of you who are looking to forgo romance in exchange for some down and dirty erotic fun on the day of lovers:

Body Swing: It doesn’t get hotter than this my sexy friends! The body swing is unlike all of the others because rather than suspending from the ceiling; it hangs from the body and offers a whole new slant to your sex—literally!

Kinky Bingo: This game allows you to turn Valentines Day into a naughty adventure for two or more! Invite your friends over and make things hot with a sexy spin on this classic game complete with 250 kinky bingo chips, 60 sexy calling cards and 12 kinky bingo cards!

Love Pillow: This inflatable pillow is designed to maximize your pleasure with its ideal shape and size and increase your position repertoire with its book of “Love Positions”! An inexpensive addition to your night of naughty fun!

Sex Card Game: How easy this makes it for you to plan out 100 possible sex fantasies together that you can then enjoy acting out till your heart’s content! A very inexpensive way to explore your most intimate fantasies! This set comes with 50 explicit sex cards, 3 Rule Cards and 1 Unleash Your Fantasy Sex Card… endless possibilities for just over $5!

There are an endless number of items on sale that you can add to your bag of sexy tricks this Valentines Day to make it one that your lover (or lovers!) will never forget

First-Time Anal Sex Woes
January 05, 2008

Is anal sex makin’ a comeback or somethin’?? It just seems that every time I pop by my favorite porn sites all I’m seeing is anal sex! As well as having it in my face on these sites, I recently noticed an influx of friends who are admitting their backdoor experiences or fascination—I’m talking anal sex, a love of a finger or two in the area and even prostate milking their mates and some tucas-lingus or “tongue-around-the-anus”!

Anyway, a close friend of mine decided to share with me her first-time anal woes and I’m pretty sure that she isn’t alone in her dilemma. It seems that as sexually charged as the moment was and as great a lover as her hubby is; after awhile of trying to “get it in there” he lost his erection which made it impossible to go on. So, being the lovely friend that I am, I decided to come up with some suggestions for her and anyone else making their first attempt at anal sex.

First off, you’ve gotta make sure that you have lube—lots of it! To keep the pain to a minimum, try a desensitizing cream (also helps to prolong erection!) Another great idea would be to engage in a little anal lovin’ leading up to the main event, cuz’ as we know; Rome wasn’t built in a day! Starting off with the finger is probably the best first step, followed by some of the smaller anal toys. Personally I think Anal Beads are kinda’ hot! These small beads on a string are inserted into the anus and then pulled out slowly during climax which feels incredible for men and women alike. You can then graduate to Anal Plugs which range in size from really small to super-sized. These can be inserted and then left in during foreplay and good ol’ vaginal intercourse and will help to “stretch” you out. Once pulled out, your anus will be dilated enough to begin penetrating with the penis.

I know that not all of us are quite that patient and when you decide you want something; you want it RIGHT NOW! For you, I would recommend the Anal ESE Kit. I think everyone—whether using it or not—has heard of Anal ESE; it’s one of the most popular desensitizers out there for anal sex. Well they’ve created a little kit (that is only $13.75!) that contains all you need for an anal session: Anal ESE cream, 3 cock rings and a runner erection-keeper ring to help keep you nice and hard non matter how long it takes. The makers of Anal ESE are all about the bum-play and know that this isn’t a two minute job, so it’s no wonder that they have created something to help you from start to finish.

Check it out here if you’re ready to venture into the wonderful world of bum sex.

** And don't forget to practice safe sex no matter what kind of sex you're having!!**
Sex Toys and Fantasies: A Mind-Blowing Combination
October 27, 2007

Fantasies are a great sexual tool—one that goes hand in hand with toys. When you fantasize, your mind becomes your own personal playground for you to do as you wish including all of those deliciously naughty things that you wouldn’t dare try in your “real life”. Fantasizing is as beneficial as it is fun because it allows you to get in touch with your sexual self, encourages some self-lovin’ which is one of the best ways to learn what you enjoy in bed so that you can teach your lover AND it also relives stress. Doesn’t get better than that! Or does it??

When we lay back and let our minds drift to visions of a naked Colin Farrell or being taken and ravaged by a group of Johnny Depp-esque pirates; our unspoken goals are to make the visual as vivid as possible and hopefully finish off with an orgasm. While I can’t fully guarantee you an orgasm without some diligence on your part, I can teach you how to not just really visualize your sex fantasies but also to make them feel more real—the emphasis being on the word “feel”. This is where sex toys come in…

When you are enjoying a sexual fantasy, you are trying to imagine the way it would feel to have the object of your desire running his hands along your body or teasing your thighs with his tongue and ultimately maybe even sliding inside of you. By using a toy in unison with your thoughts, you are able to make your fantasies come to life or at least make them 3D! You can do this simply by taking any vibrator (finger vibes are a fave!) and using to help you feel what you see. Does your fantasy start off with him caressing your breasts? Turn your vibe on low and trail it lightly along your breasts, following his/her hands so to speak. Does your fantasy partner graze the skin of your tummy as they make their way down and then linger along your inner thighs? Glide your vibe down along that same path as you visualize and feel their touch. Take this as far as penetration if you wish, be4cause after all, this is your fantasy in which you can do as your naughty little heart desires!

One final tip for upping the ante and making your fantasy time as hot as can be: try different positions. The usual lying on your back may be comfortable and a great way to relax and get started, but switching it up can be extremely erotic—especially if you are keeping in unison with the moves in your fantasy. Try lying on your stomach and teasing yourself that way. Imagine him entering you from behind as you slide your toy into you while on all fours. Mmm… endless possibilities…

When it comes to fantasies, the only limitations are those you place on yourself. Relax, let go of your inhibitions and enjoy the beautiful harmony of mind, body and yes, toys.

By our featured writer: Adrie Santos

Valentines Day Sex Toys Ordering Guide
January 09, 2007

News Alert! For this Valentines month, all US orders over $100 will receive free upgrade from UPS Ground to UPS 2nd day air, offer ends 2/20/2007

It is never too early to prepare for that very special Valentines Day. It is time to make this year's valentines day a sensual, steamy, and spiced up night both of you will remember.

  • For beginners, we highly recommend the simple yet powerful bullets and eggs for her. These little stimulators are guarranteed to bring her the big O's she never experienced.

  • Wet is always good, these Warming lubricants add hotness to every touch. These warming liquid will sure drive her crazy during the steamy foreplay.

  • We can never stress the importance of trying new sex toys and techniques such as bondage. Check out the bondage section to introduce maybe handcuffs, paddles, and masks into your sex life.
  • one of our best sellers last year was Bed of rose deluxe, it is never a bad idea to buy roses to enhance the mood for both of you.

We also have a huge collection of vibrators, dildos, g-spot stimulators, and clit stimulators that will bring both of your valentines day fantasy to reality.

Holiday 2006 Shopping Guide
November 29, 2006

It is that time of the year again. Instead of shopping for general goods, why not add some sensuality into your christmas gifts. For her or for him, spicy up your holidays with our massive collection of adult toys.

You can't go wrong with Jack Rabbits for her. One of our highest raved rabbit this year is the Deluxe Rabbit Pearl.

Here are couple other good ideas for that spicy kick to your gifts. How about bondage kits for couples? If you have already ventured into sex toys before, you can always get different lubricants, or even some luxury items such as the SwingSet

Remember, to receive your order before christmas, see the recommended order dates below for different shipping methods.
order 12/14/2006 or earlier: UPS Ground and USPS Priority
order 12/19/2006 or earlier: UPS 2nd day air
order 12/20/2006 or earlier: UPS Overnight.

You will have to order on or before the dates above to receive your order.

Have a happy holiday season.

Discreet-romance.com Management

Benefit of Sex Toys
August 10, 2006

  1. Adult Sex toys add variety and fun to spice up the sex life for you and your partner. These adult toys can be can be used during foreplay, intercourse, and masterbation.
  2. Sex toys make a great partner substitute for periods when in-between (or instead of) sexual relationships. (Adult Toys never complain :)
  3. One of the great ways of receiving stimulation that may otherwise be difficult to sustain is by using adult sex toys (They will run until you get that big O!)
  4. These hard to reach spots that a partner may not be able (or want) to reach can be resolved using sex toys; an example of this might be anal toys.
  5. Adult toys can assist in situations where one partner requires more attention than the other is able to give, for example, clitoral stimulation during intercourse using a bullet, etc...
  6. Sex toys are great for those times when one partner “wants to” and the other partner doesn’t or can’t.
  7. Sex toys promote good health. An orgasm releases stress and tension, and is a great way to start the day or as a “night cap” to help sleep.
  8. Sex toys are great in relieving sexual frustrations, which will allow a person to deal with all the other issues that they have to contend with. At the same time, while they are separated from a partner, or have no current partner, they can be satisfied without having to risk cheating or getting a STD from some person they met at the bar.
  9. Some of the adult toys are made with such premium quality and original design, it can even be used to decorate a room with erotic themes.
  10. Great sex should never be short of creativity and sensitivity. Using a variety of adult toys in different love making sessions will keep your sex life at its peak for a long long time.

Some of the specific ways that adult sex toys can be used to pleasure women are:
  1. Clitoral Stimulation
  2. Multiple Orgasms
  3. Improving Orgasms
  4. G-Spot Stimulation
  5. Induce Erection During Foreplay
Eight Gates of Pleasure - Ultimate Oral Sex Technique
May 20, 2006

Oral sex is one of the most important part of the sexual foreplay for couples. This is especially true for women because the most sensitive and sexual pleasurable spot on women's body is the clitoris.

There are tons of articles on the internet teaching men and women on how to perform oral sex. What we have below is simply a technique that we found very exciting and pleasurable for both men and women. We call this technique "Eight Gates of Pleasure". (There isn't really an official name for it simply because not many people know of this technique.)


  1. One glass of ice water with 8 or 9 ice cubes inside.
  2. One glass of warm water (a little hotter than lukewarm).
  3. Clean towel

Perform Eight Gates of Pleasure:
  1. Spread clean towel on bed.
  2. Sip in some warm water, perform your normal oral sex routine on him or her (We assume you already know how to do this perfectly. :-)
  3. Stop after one minute and hold one ice cube in your mouth and perform the oral sex routine. (Trust us, it is not as cold as you think it will be. However, try not keep the ice cube on her or him directly for more than 5 seconds.)
  4. Stop after one minute and rotate back to the warm water routine. Perform this routation for 8 times (8 ice and 8 warm).
  5. Your partner should have experienced orgasms even multiple orgasms (her).

  • Try to hold water/ice cube in your mouth when performing oral sex. You should be able to perfect it after a few minutes of practice
  • Again, make sure you don't leave the ice cube on her clitoris or his penis for more than 5 seconds. Use your tongue to deliver the temperature change
  • Don't be afraid of getting things wet, this is where the fun is

This technique is one of the best that we found to work so far. If performed correctly. It usually brings some of the most intense orgasms for us. When we introduced this technique to some of our male friends, many of them can't last more than 5 gates. Give it a try with your partner tonight, and leave him/her ecstatically breathless.
Can sex toys save your marriage?
May 03, 2006

Can sex toys save your marriage? To many people, the simple answer is "No" because marriage is not just about sex, many divorces happen because of other emotional and spiritual issues with the marriage. However, if your marriage is in trouble because of the sex life, then the answer to this question might just be a "Yes".

All of us are fully aware that marriage is a union of love, friendship and intimacy. In today's sexually liberated world, a healthy sex life is having a lot more impact on marriages than say 20,30 years ago. Many people don't realize that their marriages are falling apart because the trigger was bad sex life. Without communication with their partners, (many people don't communicate about this issue), other insignificant issues start to arise and eventually snowball into separation and even divorce.

Our hectic lifestyles aren't helping either. Sex is way down on the list of things to do, sadly being replaced by the longer hours at work, the shopping and the house work. Put frankly many don't have time for sex anymore and there must be an increase in the popularity of the use of the phrase 'I'm too tired'. I am almost positive that every single one of you have used that excuse before.
,br> Low sex marriages across the board often share the same symptoms; you only have sex a few times a month, sex is a chore, you schedule sex, you don't fantasize about your partner, there is no sense of adventure and neither of you are frisky anymore. Suffering these symptoms? If so a remedy is needed but it might not be what you are thinking.

So you might ask, what is the solution?

  1. Communication. A fundamental concept that needs to be grasped is that communication is paramount. How can you correct a problem if one half of your relationship doesn't know that one exists? It has been proven time and time again that couples who communicate well and share activities together often have a much more sexually active relationship.
  2. Consciously Make Time. Go take a couple's vacation for a weekend. Often couples that manage to escape the children for any substantial periods of time find that they have what can only be described as 'honeymoon sex'. The reduced workload and subsequent lower stress levels seem to remove inhibition and rekindle the slowly dwindling flame.
  3. Spice Up Your Bedroom. Change things around in your bedroom because it's the quickest and cheapest way to give you both a change of scenery and even a subtle hint like changing the usual light bulb for a shade of rouge can make a huge impact.
  4. Look in the toy box. Many still think of sex toys as being scary looking vibrating gizmos that can only be found in the dodgy back street sex shops found in the nasty side of town - not anymore. Sure you can still find these but when it comes to relationships sometimes it's better to take a more subtle approach.

When choosing any adult toys,try to start it off by choosing the ones that will offer the greatest chance of increased intimacy and not just something you can throw to your partner so he/she can get off. Generally the area of sex that offers amplified intimacy levels is foreplay. Concentrate on this area and get to know your partner all over again. Make it fun with a handful of accessories like the , some , or our number 1 spice it up toy . Imaging having it installed before your partner gets home...

There are tons of other sex toys you can buy for foreplay. If you want to please her, try . If you want to please him, try , or .

Keeping your choices to a selected few sex toys that will have the desired effect of keeping the focus on you and your partner and not the new additions. There's no point having the best sex toys that receive all the attention and hoping that your relationship will be ok, the focus should be on what they can add to your sex life, not be the central part of it.

Can sex toys save your marriage? It is up to you to see what is causing the problems in your marriage. Communicate with your partner, if it is sex life related. Try the toys, it never hurts to try.
Anal Sex - The Myth and the Truth
April 26, 2006

We just completed a beginner's guide to anal sex. Anal sex is avoided by many people due to the fear of being hurt, fear of hygiene issues, and fear of entering uncharted territories. We would like to assure you that when performed slowly and correctly, anal sex will spice up your sex life beyond your wildest imagination for men and women.

In our article, we answer these three questions first: Does it hurt?, Do women like anal sex?, and If I want to try anal sex, does it mean I am Gay? (question from guys)

Then we describe in seven basic steps to help you understand how to perform anal sex correctly.

  1. Clean out your rectum (to avoid a mess and skin abrasions)
  2. Turn-on with foreplay (cuddle, kiss, etc.)
  3. Rim Preparation (licking)
  4. Lube and Finger (to relax the muscle)
  5. Strap-on dildo, Butt Plug, Anal Probe, and Anal Beads

Here is the anal sex education article
How to clean your sex toys
April 24, 2006

Keeping the dildos, the vibrators, and the butt products clean is extremely important for sex toys owners. Especially since these toys are usually used internally. It is best to clean the sex toy before and after each usage to prevent potential illnesses caused by the body fluid left on the sex toy.

One of the most reliable way to prevent the spread of any disease is to use a condom on the toy. Using a condom prevents having to interrupt during sex to clean the toy and lessen the chance of spreading bacterias. Almost all toys feels better used with lubricants. Water based lubricants are the safest.

How to clean sex toys
Antibacterial soap and warm water can be used if you don't have sex toy cleaners. Any sex toy that had contacts with body fluid should be washed in soap and water and then soaked in a solution of 10% bleach and 90% water. Rinse well in clear water for several minutes after to remove bleach and soap. Commercial adult toy cleaning solutions that can be purchased that have been specially formulated to kill all bacteria and germs and at the same time preserve the life of the toys.

Cyberskin Sex Toys Cleaning
Cyberskin is extremely sensitive and should be cleaned following use with warm water and stored in a clean dry place to keep the toy like new.

Silicone Vibrators & Dildos
Silicone is a very durable material so it can be easily cleaned with soap and warm water. Even boiling the toy for disinfection or wash it in a dishwater will not harm it. However, to go to such an extreme, make sure there are no plastic parts and the toy is waterproof.

Rubber Dildos, Plugs & Etc.
The best and easiest way to keep rubber clean is with a condom. Clean all rubber products after use with soap and warm water. They need to also be rinsed well as the left over soap residue can cause damage to the rubber and also irritate the skin.

Do not use any oil based lubricants on latex. Use only water-based products with latex.

Leather is a very difficult material to keep clean because of all the irregularities of the material. To clean leather, first wash the edges with a strong foaming cleaner and a brush, then wipe down all of the surfaces with hydrogen peroxide and allow to dry. Follow this by using saddle soap for an additional cleaning. The last process is using a leather conditioner to restore it back to its natural finish. The leather conditioner is an absolute must because without it the leather will begin to dry out and crack. This process does not work on suede.

Sex Toys Storage
Very simple rule for sex toys storage: keep it out of sunlight and make sure the place is not humid.

Note: To get the best battery life for your toy, take the batteries out after each use.

Why You Shouldn't Be Scared of Sex Toys
April 20, 2006

I recently came across the following article. It is a short yet very informative article on why sex toys should be incorporated into everyone's sex lives. Enjoy...

Remnants of the free love generation have thankfully survived and in recent years a sexual revival has resurged in the American psyche and bedroom. This time, however, the participants are a bit wiser and more sophisticated in their sexual exploration. As a result sex toys, once limited to the margins of society, have come full circle and are now in the mainstream of American living. Individuals and couples who had never before tried sex toys are now doing so for the first time. And yet, there still remains some who are scared of introducing sex toys into their life.

This fear comes in large part from a misunderstanding about the uses and ramifications of sex toys. They imagine that sex toys are limited to extreme versions of fetishism or that somehow sex toys are a means of separating you from your partner. These two conclusions cannot be farther from the truth.

With the recent explosion in the popular usage of sex toys, manufacturers have created a wide array of products designed to meet the needs and interests of everyone. While certainly there exists a wide array of S & M products on the market today which those interested in find extremely fun, there also exist a number of products designed for the novice user.

The sex toy industry is completely aware of the desire for many individuals to keep their toys discrete. As a result, a number of products have been designed with that end in mind. Vibrators that look exactly like lipstick containers and lotions and lubricants which are described with terms like ‘relaxation’ rather than more explicit sexual terminology come to mind. The discrete design and packaging of sexual toys allows even the shyest of individuals to feel comfortable.

With fears allayed as to the nature of sex toys, the next question is about their effects on an existing relationship. Whereas in decades past sex toys were largely limited to single individuals or those focused on a particular area of sex, normally labeled fetishism, recently sex toys have been brought into millions of couples bedrooms. Sex toys can be a new and exciting way to spice up sex between a couple who has been together for some time. It can also be an excellent way for couples to explore new areas to find that something works better for them. In effect, sex toys, rather than creating division between couples, are often a source which brings them together in new and exciting romantic situations.

Author: Susan Atibizi
Article Publisher: www.iSnare.com

Sex with a robot? Maybe not yet, but ...
April 19, 2006

Interesting article from MSNBC

When America's top sex researchers gathered recently to discuss the next decade in their field, some envisioned a future in which artificial sex partners could cater to every fantasy.

"What is very likely to be present before 2016 would be a multi-sensual experience of virtual sex," said Julia Heiman, director of the Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction at Indiana University, Bloomington.

"There is a possibility of developing erotic materials for yourself that would allow you to create a partner of certain dimensions and qualities, the partner saying certain things in that interaction, certain things happening in that interaction."

A field dubbed "teledildonics" already allows people at two remote computers to manipulate electronic devices such as a vibrator at the other end for sexual purposes.

"People who use it are just blown away," said Steve Rhodes, president of Sinulate Entertainment, which has sold thousands of Internet-connected sex devices over the past three years. "This is not something that just the lunatic fringe does."

"The Iraq war ... was kind of a boom for our company."

Gina Lynn, who writes the "Sex Drive" column for Wired magazine, says she has used and enjoyed the Sinulator and says there is no reason to fear the technology.

"People are still really afraid of...any sort of combination of and of the Internet," she said. "What people are missing here is the point, which is the human connection that we are facilitating through the technology."

"No one who is even inventing this stuff wants or even thinks that technology could ever replace human connection or sex."

Annie Sprinkle, a former adult film actress, prostitute and author of "Spectacular Sex," said teledildonics are a logical outgrowth of improvements in pleasure devices.

"Now people use vibrators like mad and rightly so; the technology of sex toys has vastly improved," she said. "The more options the better; I mean it can never replace body to body."

--- The story went on to talk about virtual sex with porn stars and other technologies that influences your mind. Read more by following the link on top. ---

How to Stir up Her Sexual Desires, Part I
April 14, 2006

Everyone of us has experienced a period of time called "honeymoon period" where two people just met, fell in love, and sex is hot and heavy especially. However, as time goes on, the female partner tend to withdraw from having sex often, which in return is very frustrating to her male partner.

I would like to discuss a few methods that is proven to work on women to bring out a more romantic and satisfying sex life for both of you.

We will discuss two of them today:

1. Keep yourself and your partner in good physical shapes
This is a long term project for yourself and your partner. Sex in its rawest form is a very physical activity, the feel and the touch during sex are very important to both partners. In today's world, people are subconsciously attracted to certain body types because of the heavy bombardments of TV shows and commercials. It is almost impossible for everyone to look like them; however, just because you don't have six packs, doesn't mean you are not physically fit and attractive to your partner. Hit the gym and lift weights to increase these muscle mass. Do some cardios for your stamina. Most importantly, encourage your partner to go with you. Girls, try Yoga and Pilate, they are fun, and they can increase your flexibility, which doubles the points in bed. As studies show, cardio activities can increase endurance for prolonged sexual activity and increase men and women's sexual desires. About.com has another article on this topic, check it out as well: About.com's article on sex and exercise

2. Spice it up
One of the biggest problems for partners to lose interest is the routine sexual activities. You can't just set a time and date to have sex, and you can't just have the same old routine during sex. It becomes extremely boring after a while. Try to create an unpredictable environment for sexual activities. If you have never used , try to surprise her with a (a great startup sex toy). Another great way to spice it up is try . You can trust me, not many women will say no to blindfolds. It is just another fantasy of ours. There are many other creative ways to surprise your partner, such as find an erotic story to read or erotic video to watch, etc...

More to come...

The History of Dildos in America
April 12, 2006

Since the beginning of recorded time the most common health complaint among women was ‘hysteria’, a medical term used to describe a woman in mental or emotional distress and a condition that was thought to be in need of immediate treatment.

To treat the so-called ailment, doctors and midwives massaged the genitals to "hysterical paroxysm," as the orgasm was scientifically termed, to release held-back energies.
The procedure was performed in doctor’s offices, health spas, and the home as a standard medical procedure.

In the mid-1600’s Doctors recommended the following treatment for hysteria:

"...massage the genitalia with one finger inside using oil of lilies, musk root, crocus or [something] similar. And in this way the afflicted woman can be aroused to paroxysm (orgasm)…most especially for widows, those who live chaste lives, and religious females...it is less often recommended for very young women, or married women, for whom it is a better remedy to engage in intercourse with their spouses."

19th century religious proscriptions against self-masturbation meant that Doctors or midwives rather than the individual performed the stimulation. Most doctors did it because they felt it was their duty, but considered it a chore, as manual massage was fatiguing and slow, taking up to an hour to ‘complete’ the procedure.

Beginning in the early 1800’s, Doctors designed many other procedures for arousing women and alleviating the symptoms of ‘hysteria’ for a time including rocking chairs, a swing, and vehicles that bounced the patient rhythmically on her pelvis. It appears however that the women of the day had the problem well in hand.

By 1870 the gentle Doctors got on the right track with a wind-up vibrator made available to both spas and physicians. Obviously no woman was interviewed during the design stage as in field trials it had a tendency to run down before the treatment was complete.

Shortly after the wind up vibrator fiasco, vibrator development took another distinctly male design turn when an American physician patented the "Manipulator" - a steam-powered massage and vibratory apparatus. He warned that patients should be careful to avoid over-manipulation.

steam powered vibrator

Finally, in the 1880’s a British physician invented the electromechanical vibrator for use as a medical instrument issuing in the golden years for dildos. Other physicians followed suit with contraptions intended to serve as vibrators. Articles and textbooks on vibratory massage technique praised the machine's versatility for treating nearly all diseases in both sexes and saving physicians’ time and labor. These vibrators reduced the time of "getting there" from up to an hour to approximately 10 minutes.

By the end of the 19th century, some doctors were advising women to come in for such treatments once a week.

In an effort to better serve the patient, convenient portable models become available, permitting house calls. Vibrators had come of age as an accepted health and relaxation aid.

The electric vibrator was invented right after the electric sewing machine, fan, teakettle and toaster, and before the electric vacuum cleaner, the electric iron and the electric frypan.

The Home Needlework Journal advertised its line of vibrators with the slogan "all the pleasures of youth will throb within you."

As the market became more competitive, ad copy for vibrators was coy and ambiguous. "Be a glow getter," one package insert suggests. And who wouldn't be tempted to experience "that delicious, thrilling health-restoring sensation called vibration," when assured that "it makes you fairly tingle with the joy of living"?

The Sears and Roebuck & Company Electric Goods catalog promotes a vibrator attachment for a home motor that also drives attachments for churning, beating, buffing and fan operating America’s housewives had all but eliminated long bouts of ‘hysteria’ when 1920 Stag films started using vibrators as props. Orgasm without penetration! The vibrator's era as a medical appliance had ended. Advertisements for vibrators gradually disappeared from respectable publications as vibrators transgressed to becoming sex toys.

vibrator1960s: Vibrator re-emerges and is openly marketed as a sex aid.
It is quite astounding that in the 1970’s Medical authorities still assured men that a woman who does not reach orgasm during sexual coitus was flawed or suffering from some physical or psychological impairment. It wasn’t until the 1990s that research showed that more than half of all women, possibly more than 70 percent, do not reach orgasm by means of penetration alone.

Vibrators are now a big business; after all, as a vintage advertisement claims,
"almost like a miracle is the miraculous healing force of massage when rightly applied."

New Order By Review Feature
April 09, 2006

We have just implemented the new order by "Review Rating (High to Low)" feature on our dropdown boxes for all sex toys listings. If you browse to a category such as Rabbit Vibrators, you will see the drop down box default to "Product Name Ascending", click on the box and choose "Review Rating (High to Low)", it will sort the products by review ratings (rated by our customers), If two or more sex toys have the same rating, the one with the most number of votes will be placed first.

Hopefully this addition will make your shopping easier at our store. We continue to add new features to our store to make things better for customers. We will keep you updated.

Sue Johanson's Sex Toys
March 22, 2006

We have a good collection of Sue Johanson branded sex toys. For people who don't know who Sue Johanson is, she is Canada's foremost sexual educator and counsellor, recipient of the distinguished Order of Canada. For the last 30 years, she has provided frank and honest sexual education to thousands of Canadians through her lectures, radio programs, and the Sunday Night Sex Show on television.

Since 2002, Sue's wisdom and experience have been available to American viewers on "Talk Sex with Sue Johanson™", a live phone-in program airing on Oxygen TV. Talk Sex also airs in Brazil with Portuguese subtitles on GNT.

She talks everything from sexuality to the usage of sex toys. She answers questions such as "where is my g-spot, how to have anal sex, best sexual positions, and erection troubles." She almost always mention one or two on her show.

She branded a line of toys, and we have them! Click here for Sue Johanson's Sex Toys in our store.


Adult Humor (2)
All About Sex Toys (24)
Featured Sex Toy (13)
Random Writing (39)
Reviews (4)
Sex Toys In a Basket (26)
Useful Information (45)


May 2014
February 2014
December 2013
October 2013
August 2013
July 2013
June 2013
April 2013
March 2013
February 2013
January 2013
December 2012
October 2012
August 2012
July 2012
June 2012
May 2012
April 2012
January 2012
December 2011
November 2011
October 2011
September 2011
August 2011
July 2011
June 2011
May 2011
April 2011
March 2011
January 2011
December 2010
November 2010
October 2010
September 2010
August 2010
July 2010
June 2010
March 2010
February 2010
January 2010
December 2009
November 2009
October 2009
September 2009
August 2009
June 2009
May 2009
March 2009
February 2009
January 2009
December 2008
November 2008
October 2008
September 2008
August 2008
July 2008
June 2008
May 2008
April 2008
March 2008
February 2008
January 2008
December 2007
October 2007
September 2007
June 2007
May 2007
April 2007
March 2007
February 2007
January 2007
November 2006
October 2006
September 2006
August 2006
June 2006
May 2006
April 2006
March 2006

  Featured Writers

Adrie Santos

  Favorite Adult Bloggers

Jennas Blog
Erotic Porn Blog
Dirth Filthy Princess
Silvia's Sex the right way
Ambient Storms's Provacative Persiflage
Bad Influence girl
Salacious Desires
Improve Your Sex Life
Creative Spanked Wife R*yan
LS Blogs

Sex Toys Blog Rss Feed

Sex Toys Home  |   Site Map  |   Shipping Policy  |   Return Policy  |   FAQ  |   Privacy & Security Policy  |   Terms of Use  |   Contact Us
Shopping Cart  |   Sign In  |   Track Order  |   Checkout

Join our affiliate program and make money

Copyright © 2004-2018 www.discreet-romance.com - Best online adult toys, sex toy store
All models are 18 years of age or older. 18 U.S.C. 2257 Record Keeping Requirements Compliance