I was thinking about my single days today and realizing how easy it is to become one of those smug marrieds who seem to forget what it's like to be single and forget about her single friends. I don't want to be that person and, in fact, would like to be the one who rises above marital bliss long enough to celebrate my single friends and remind them that as wonderful as it is to have someone amazing in your life, you shouldn't forget how great it is to be you AND single. Where am I going with this? Well, in having all of these thoughts, I set my sights to fun ways to celebrate my single friends this holiday season. That's when I came up with the ultimate single girl gift basket idea!

I think that filling a basket with fun and flirty goodies for your favorite single friend is a great way to say you care...and envy her a little sometimes. You can cater the basket to her specific tastes and throw in some things that only she would get, like a mini condom just like the one she sent you (me!) in a letter one summer while you were away in Europe, or a blow up doll that resembles her ex or caters to her love of construction men...or firemen...or even President Obama! The basket is your oyster and you can do with it as you please! This means that you could give all your single friends the ultimate single girl's gift basket and personalize each one. How fun is that??

Here's a peek at what I'm putting in my basket. Hopefully it'll give you some great ideas for your friends and inspire you to say you care with sex toys, lotions and potions, and other funny/sexy/crazy items this Christmas.

My Ultimate Single Girl's Gift Basket

Kama Sutra's Oil of Love in Vanilla Creme: This has always been my favorite indulgence for bath time and sexy time! A couple drops in the bath make the water smell great and your skin feel incredible. Perfect for those who actually still have time for a long relaxing bath.

Condoms: Every single girl MUST have condoms on hand. I don't want my friend wrapping any of her lips around a strange guy's dick without some sort of safety barrier! So, I'm adding a 3 pack of my favorite Durex Love condoms as well as a pack of Endurance Spearmint Flavored condoms for dates with guys worthy of some oral action. (They'll leave you minty fresh even after oral!)

Berman Romeo G-Spot Vibe: This is my go-to vibe for G-spot play. A gal shouldn't have to wait for a guy to find her G-spot when she can pull Romeo out of her goody drawer and do it herself!

Bullet 80mm Vibe: Everyone should have a compact, no fuss no muss go-to vibrator that packs a mean punch and gets you off fast. This one does that...and it's shiny. *smile*

Sexy Bra and Panty Set: This was chosen for my plus sized friend because I think it's a sin how hard it is to find sexy bras and panties for big girls in stores. This is a sexy underwire bra with matching panties that are anything but your grandma's panties. And even better - the set is under $20 which makes it way cheaper than any set you'll ever find in a plus size shop!

Best Friend Pecker Mug: I just had to throw in a cheesy gag gift that refers to the fact that she's my BFF! This mug has a pecker in it. I couldn't ask for more.