I've had it up to my eyeballs with people who either complain about condoms or just simply refuse to use them; putting themselves and their partners at risk. Wake up and smell the latex people! Condoms can save your life! Geez.

Hearing someone tell you that you should wear condoms and practice safe sex may sound like a broken record, but wouldn?t you rather that than a doctor telling you that you?ve got some nasty fun ? or worse?? I thought so.

My favorite complaint of all is from the guys who say that the condoms make them lose their boner. Yeah, that?s it ? must be the condoms. (Note the obvious sarcasm) The truth of the matter is that condoms cannot make you go limp and what actually makes it happen is your own hang ups about condoms. You need to stop seeing the condoms as a bad thing and see them for what they are: an absolute MUST if you?re going to have any kind of sex. Period.

So now, let me give you a few quick tips to help you get over your condom-hating ways and show you how fun and hot safe sex can be.

Put your money where your mouth is. Buying flavored condoms is the best way to go if you?re looking to make oral sex safer. Place on a penis before a blow job or cut one open and use instead of a dental damn when going down on her for a tasty treat! Use your lips to roll a flavored condom over his penis so there?s no chance of him going soft while prepping for sex and flavors like banana and chocolate and grape will make sex all the yummier for you too!

Mix it up. Condom makers have heard all the whiner?s pleas and come up with all kinds of cool condoms from textured to vibrating; you can pretty much find a condom to tickle any fancy. Buy a variety pack so you can really mix it up right!

Size ?em up. Have a schmooze through the different sizes available and choose the one that?s best for you. There are even tight-fit condoms for those who prefer a snugger fit.

Share the love. Buy an assortment of condoms and fill up a bowl for your next party and leave them out for the taking. Your friends will get a rise out of your generous party favors!

Pass on the latex. If you find yourself feeling not-quite-right down below after using condoms; you may be one of the many people who are allergic to latex. Ditch the usual condoms and try one of the other alternative non-latex condoms.

Condoms don?t have to be a drag and you owe it to yourself and your partner to do what it takes to make sex fun and safe. Make a point of experimenting with different types of condoms the way you would positions. Or try coming up with hot ways to put one on yourself of your partner. You can easily make condoms a part of your pleasure like foreplay with a little imagination.