Is it normal to get ahttcaed after having sex?I'm 17 and I had a friend with benefits that's 19. We never had sex but we did everything but that including oral sex.I didn't like his personality at all. I was absolutely infatuated with the way that he looks. I thought that he had a gorgeous face. After we had oral sex and we got naked together, I felt really ahttcaed and I felt some feelings of love afterwards. We experienced something really personal together and he is the first guy that I ever did that with.After that happened we only spoke to each other twice. It really hurt my feelings that he didn't want much to do with me anymore and vice versa. I feel like I'm obsessed with him. This didn't happen when I broke up with other guys. All I can think about is him and even though he's a huge jerk, I keep thinking about the few good qualities that he did have and how I wish I had him back.I feel soooooooooo depressed and I can't let him go. It's been 3 months since it happened.Is it normal to get ahttcaed after having sex?