|Kids Donít Have To End the Fun|
July 30, 2012
If you have children, chances are your sex life has taken a significant dive. While children are often the result of the fun, it often goes away once they arrive. How do you maintain the passion in your relationship when there is little time to go around? Sometimes sex toys can be the solution for a relationship that is in danger of being overlooked.
Sex toys are a lot more than the loud clunky vibrators of days long ago. Toys have been made to be more discrete and efficient. If it has been a while since youíve tried a sex toy donít decide they arenít for you just yet. If you have had kids since youíve last looked and thought that you couldnít possibly have sex toys now, think again.
If you have children and are concerned about having sex toys, it is important to remember that there are a lot of different types of sex toys to choose from. One thing to consider when purchasing toys in this type of situation is how they look. Sex toys do not have to look like sex. Consider purchasing toys that would be uninteresting to the unfamiliar eye if accidentally discovered. Simply put, avoid anatomically correct toys, and dispose of packaging with graphic descriptions.
Sex toys do not have to sound like sex toys either. If you are purchasing an electronic toy, purchase one that does not make too much noise. It is hard to explain a loud buzzing noise no matter what time it is. Many toys are designed to sound not louder than a cell phone. Research toys based on how loud they are and always consider the other people in the house when you use it.
One thing parents frequently do not have is time. Spend more time with your partner and not preparing your toys by purchasing toys that are easy to maintain. Save time in the bedroom by always having enough batteries on hand, or keeping rechargeable toys ready to go. Save after fun time by purchasing toy cleaner or wipes to make clean up a breeze.
Sometimes the best way to keep the fire going is to make the fire in unexpected places. A great way to keep the fun going on parent time is to play in the shower. For toys, this means purchasing toys that are waterproof. Not only do you have a fun place to have needed adult time, with waterproof toys cleanup is effortless.
Remote control toys are also a great way to take the fun outside of the bedroom. Many of these toys, such a vibrating panties or eggs are made to be worn and activated from a distance. No one will know that you are wearing them unless you tell them, and you and partner can keep the fun a secret. They are also a great way to engage in discrete foreplay during the day.
The most important rule to keeping toys after kids is having a safe place to store them. No matter how discrete your toys are, you donít want to leave them out for others to discover. Invest in a good storage system for your toys. You may even want to consider a toy box that locks.
While kids can be time consuming, they donít have to mean the end of fun in the bedroom. If you use toys that are discrete and easy to maintain, chances are it can be business as usual. For couples that need a little more help keeping the fun going, consider taking the fun out of the bedroom. Most importantly, make sure you have a good place to keep them. With these simple tips, the fun can go on!