This thing is big! That is the first thing I have to say about it. Thankfully it is made out of rubber so it has some flex to it, but it was definitely intimidating at first. I emphasis the 'at first' part, because once I got the hang of it, I really started to like it. The texture feels amazingly real, and the crank took it to a whole different level. I actually had a hard time focusing on turning the crank because I was enjoying it so much. I wish there was an attachment to auto crank it for me! But for people who aren't as lazy as me, they probably will figure out a way to keep the rooter squirming. My suggestion, find a partner to crank it so you can focus on the pleasure it brings.