My husband surprised me with this a few months ago. He had me wear it to the grocery store. As we were shopping he would turn it on, just to see me jump a little. We've used it a lot since then. We like to go to crowded place while I'm wearing it while he stands nearby with the remote. Sometimes he whispers naughty things in my ear, like telling me he is going to turn it on high unless I did something embarrassing. Sometimes I don't tell him I am wearing the toy, and just leave the remote around so he can play with me. I absolutely love this toy.