This was my first vibrator and I love it! It is quiet, not too strong and discrete. I love how it doesn't look like a penis. I have roommates, you know? Honestly I can't tell what it looks like. It feels really soft on the skin and is waterproof. I even took it in the shower and had a great time using it as a vibrator for my outside areas. Another time I tried putting it inside of me. It's not very long but it didn't have a problem hitting my 'spot'. Oh my gosh, it felt so good vibrating inside of me. What a great toy!