I don't understand how guys can just use lotion. When you use your hand, no matter how much you imagine,it doesn't feel like a real woman. The pussy stroker solved that problem for me. I can use it anytime and it feels so real. The material is soft and it warms up to the body. It is not so soft that it feels like jelly or anything. It just feels like real skin. I also like the pink lips. Every time I look at it I think I get hard. They did a good job of making sure the sleeve looks and feels real.