This toy is so much fun to use and its easy! I put it right on my clit and let it tickle and suck away. Its like getting the best oral attention you've ever had. Sometimes I put a little lube on it so it can be nice and slippery, but most of the time I just go without it. It really doesn't matter, because it feels good both ways. It also feels amazing on my nipples. For that, I like to put some lube on it though, so it feels more like a tongue. This has got to be the best pretend mouth I have ever had!