This kit seriously has it all. While probably intended for couple play, I bought it for myself. I figured anything that has BellaDonna's name on it couldn't be that bad. The cuffs were firm and restrictive. I used them on my ankles to keep my legs together, then I strapped the ball gag around my face. I'm not generally a fan of the taste of rubber, but that added to the effect I think. If it is too comfortable, then its not truly BDSM. The best part is the included matching vibrator. It is not that big, but is just long enough to reach all the important spots. The fact that it was all matching was an added bonus.