Getting What You Want and Need: Sex Toy Buyer's Guide
May 15, 2009 01:00 pmSo you're thinking of buying a sex toy are you? Well, let us be the first to congratulate you on making a choice that will open up a whole new world of erotic play. We must warn you that it will be hard to stop at just one, because once you've enjoyed the unyielding freedom that a toy can bring to you or to your relationship you will want more. More. MORE!!
Deciding on a sex toy is a personal choice, and while we won't tell you what to buy, we can certainly give you the information you need to help you choose the best one for you.
First you need to decide what type of toy you're looking for. The most popular choices fall between vibrators and dildos (dildos being the same thing only without the vibration). Are you looking for clitoral stimulation only? Penetration? Some anal play??
Here are some of the general options available:
Traditional Vibrators
Traditional vibrators are a great choice for a 'newbie' as they tend to be streamlined, simple and to the point. Great for both penetration and clitoral stimulation and available in small to realistic sizes'though jumbo fantasy size is available if you dare!
Some traditional vibes to consider: Berman Intimate Basics, Colt Metal, Gigolo 2 Vanilla
Dual Action Vibrators (Rabbit Vibrators)
Sex and The City made these types of vibes popular after they aired an episode dedicated to the 'Rabbit'. They feature a few more bells and whistles than the traditional vibrators but certainly live up to the hype! They offer both clitoral and vaginal stimulation with their vibrating and sometimes rotating shafts as well as external clit stimulator. The sensation overload has been responsible for some super-quick and very powerful orgasms.
Double the pleasure faves: Jack Rabbit Vibrator, Decadent Indulgence or Hyper Bunny
G-spot Vibrators
As the G-spot is located on the front wall of the vagina (towards the stomach), approximately 2 inches in; the G-spot vibes are designed with a curve made to reach the spot just right and stimulate it like no man or finger ever could!
G-spot Favorites: Acrylic Smooth Groove G, Exciter Pink, Scoop Lover
Clitoral Stimulators
These powerful little guys pack a lot of punch! Don't let the compact size of many of the clit stimulators fool you as they serve their purpose just right! Most women require clitoral stimulation to orgasm and whether you're playing solo or with your partner; these mini-vibes are easy to use and extremely effective'not to mention compact enough to use while your partner is busy on your other parts!
Some super clit vibes: Berman Intimate Basics Mimi, CyberSkin Passion Flower Mini, Femme Fatale Clit Teaser Pleaser
Dildos (Realistic Dildos)
Dildos are made for those who are longing to be filled. They are generally life-like in appearance and feel and made specifically for penetration. Sizes to suit everyone'you can get them in small all the way up to super-sized! There are also double-ended dildos for one or two people? or three? four?
There are also some super decadent glass dildos that offer a smooth and luxurious choice for dildo lovers that are also pleasing to the eye.
Hot dildos to try: Icicles Neon Dream Glass, Leo Silver Glitter, Double Trouble Slender Bender
Anal Vibrators and Butt Plugs
If anal play is what you're after then there are dozens of choices to tickle your fancy as far as anal toys go! With varying sizes and the choice of vibrating or non, there is something for everyone. Starting off small would be smart when venturing into previously un-chartered territory. No matter what size or type you opt for here, keep in mind the most important thing of all: lube, lube, lube!!
Some goodies for backdoor play: Anal Ease Lube, Bendy Beads, Dr.Joel Anal Dilator Kit
For Couples or Adventurous Singles
These are great times for those looking to bring toys into a relationship. Add some naughty steam to any outing with a hands free vibrator that comes complete with a remote control allowing one of you complete control over the pleasure of the other. Hands free vibes are also great for singles that are looking to make multi-tasking more stimulating! Try wearing vibrating panties to work or to the mall if you dare! Go ahead'no one will know what that smile is all about! It can be your little secret'
Some fun options: Remote Control Fantasy Panty, Remote Control Vibe Set, Dolphin Duo Strap On
Materials
Sex toys are made from several different types of materials which offer varying sensations. Here is a breakdown of the most popular to help you make your choice:
Plastic is used to make most of the 'traditional vibrators'. It is inexpensive, easy to care for and offers intense vibration because of its ability to transfer the vibrations through it so well.
Jelly is pliable and comes in a vast array of textures and colors. It's soft and smooth, yet still firm enough to make for easy penetration. It is also easy to clean.
Latex is another favorite for those looking for a more life-like feel. This tends to be used most to make realistic dildos. Bear in mind that a small percentage of people have an allergy to latex, so use caution if you suspect that you may be one of those people.
Silicone toys are great because they are durable, range from softer to harder and are even dishwasher safe!
Glass is wonderful as it can be heated or cooled safely before use to offer up a different sensation every time. They are also smooth and aesthetically pleasing, though not at all pliable.
Cyberskin is the most true-to-life of all the materials out there. Though sometimes a little more expensive; these offer the look and feel of real skin, giving you the most realistic experience. These also generally come with their own special cleanser and renewing talc.
Caring For Your Sex Toys
Once you have made your choice and finally get your hands on your toy of choice, you will need to take care of it to make sure that you continue to get the most'umm' bang for your buck!
Sex toys are made of different materials and some require a little more care than others. Keeping your sex toy clean is important no matter what, but be especially diligent if you will be sharing your toys. (Using condoms on toys is the best choice if it will be passed around during play time)
The majority of toys can be cleaned using sex toy cleaners like 'Before & After Toy Cleaner'. As well, a mild soap with water will do the trick for most toys as well, such as those made from silicone, latex, glass or plastic. Be sure to keep the water away from the motor of the toy unless it's labeled as 'waterproof'.
When caring for your Cyberskin toy, it is recommended that you do so using the provided cleaner and talc to help keeps its texture. A very mild soap and warm water is another alternative.
Sex toys can be an erotic addition to your sex life whether you are single or involved. Take the time to use the information given to choose to best toy for your wants and needs.
Keep an open mind, play safe and enjoy your new toy! We'll be here when you're ready for your second and third and fourth'
Happy Shopping! | 
