Having a friend with beefnits is like having the boyfriend that you don't really like. You have experienced something close and intimate, but without it actually BEING close and intimate.Here's the thing: as humans, we naturally mate for life. This means that our instincts tell us that the one we have sex with once is the one we should be having sex with forever. It's a feeling close to love. Unfortunately, it lacks the deeper substance and perfection of love, and instead stops at a shallow, physical relationship that leaves both partakers in pain.This silly thing is called having a friend with beefnits. You have given sex and developed the feeling I described above. You don't like his personality, but you are so strongly attached to him physically that you can't let him go. My advice? Find someone you can love, and DON'T give him sex (for a while). Get to know the person as opposed to the body. There's two reasons I recommend this. First, you develop an emotional bond before the physical bond. This will make your physical bond much more satisfying for you both in the end. Secondly, the lack of sex will create a craving in your body. When this happens (if you really like whoever you find), your mind will turn to this new guy . You create a need for this new guy and help ease the craving for your old friend .In a sentence: Move on, don't do friends with beefnits, and develop the emotional bond before having sex. Okay?