Adult Blogs - First-Time Anal Sex Woes
January 05, 2008 12:00 amIs anal sex makin’ a comeback or somethin’?? It just seems that every time I pop by my favorite porn sites all I’m seeing is anal sex! As well as having it in my face on these sites, I recently noticed an influx of friends who are admitting their backdoor experiences or fascination—I’m talking anal sex, a love of a finger or two in the area and even prostate milking their mates and some tucas-lingus or “tongue-around-the-anus”!
Anyway, a close friend of mine decided to share with me her first-time anal woes and I’m pretty sure that she isn’t alone in her dilemma. It seems that as sexually charged as the moment was and as great a lover as her hubby is; after awhile of trying to “get it in there” he lost his erection which made it impossible to go on. So, being the lovely friend that I am, I decided to come up with some suggestions for her and anyone else making their first attempt at anal sex.
First off, you’ve gotta make sure that you have lube—lots of it! To keep the pain to a minimum, try a desensitizing cream (also helps to prolong erection!) Another great idea would be to engage in a little anal lovin’ leading up to the main event, cuz’ as we know; Rome wasn’t built in a day! Starting off with the finger is probably the best first step, followed by some of the smaller anal toys. Personally I think Anal Beads are kinda’ hot! These small beads on a string are inserted into the anus and then pulled out slowly during climax which feels incredible for men and women alike. You can then graduate to Anal Plugs which range in size from really small to super-sized. These can be inserted and then left in during foreplay and good ol’ vaginal intercourse and will help to “stretch” you out. Once pulled out, your anus will be dilated enough to begin penetrating with the penis.
I know that not all of us are quite that patient and when you decide you want something; you want it RIGHT NOW! For you, I would recommend the Anal ESE Kit. I think everyone—whether using it or not—has heard of Anal ESE; it’s one of the most popular desensitizers out there for anal sex. Well they’ve created a little kit (that is only $13.75!) that contains all you need for an anal session: Anal ESE cream, 3 cock rings and a runner erection-keeper ring to help keep you nice and hard non matter how long it takes. The makers of Anal ESE are all about the bum-play and know that this isn’t a two minute job, so it’s no wonder that they have created something to help you from start to finish.
Check it out here if you’re ready to venture into the wonderful world of bum sex.
** And don't forget to practice safe sex no matter what kind of sex you're having!!** | 
