I wouldn't use this so much as a bondage toy, or BDSM toy...so much as a lover-is-out or long-distance-relationship thing. That's the scenario I'm currently in. I haven't bought this, but the price seems fairly reasonable for something like this. Bouncing on a hard chair with a dildo and duct tape is difficult. Bouncing on an inflatable seat with an attached dildo..that sounds more on-key to me. Like I said I haven't experienced it, but it just sounds logical to me.