We just got this in yesterday and have already played with it (we got the 7 1/2 in one). It's soft and firm, even the head has a realistic feel, it's not hard like other toys we have played with. Feels so real, and we lucked up ... it could have been molded from my husands penis. No need to clone him now, DP here we come, lol. Oh, and I can take him with me where ever I go.