This item is perfect for sextoy parties. We use one for games during the parties to see who wins the secret prize hidden in the box. It takes real talent to make the ring the cock from a distance so we let the girls all sit about equal from the coffee table and center the cock on the table. Most of the women are very excited when their time comes. The game by itself has proven to have many different possibilities. I now have two to use like the men use when playing horse shoes, now the women have their own game of cockrings.. They were worth what was paid for them. They make for a very unique way to get people interested in the party.