Bondage Rendezvous September 14, 2011 12:00 amCould your bedroom routine use a little spice? Consider adding bondage games to your nighttime activities.
For some, the idea of whips and chains may seem a little extreme, but nowadays there are plenty of ways to incorporate BDSM into an otherwise vanilla lifestyle.
You do not really have to know much about the lifestyle to enjoy couples bondage. Easily available bondage toys can introduce anyone to the many types of bondage activities available. Most bondage sex toys are beginner level and include instructions for those who are new to the activity. There are even kits that introduce and group popular bondage toys into one convenient package
One of the basic principles of bedroom bondage is the actual bondage of one of the partners. The partner that is restrained is often referred to as the sub or slave. The partner that is not restrained is called the dominatrix or the dom.
There are multiple ways to restrain your lover when practicing bedroom bondage. Ball Gags prevent the person from talking and limit breathing. This can be a fun toy for those who like to have their partner quiet. Restraining your vision is thought to magnify the other senses. A slave may love wearing blindfolds & masks because it increases their pleasure elsewhere.
There are multiple types of restraints available to fit everyone's personal desires. For some, bondage only means physical restraint. This can be done by the use of cuffs and harnesses. These fun toys restrain the limbs and parts of the body. When they are used, it is easy to further restrain with the inclusion of rope or furniture.
In addition to restraint, bedroom bondage often includes mental games and physical stimulation. Clamps and jewelry provide slight pain or stimulation, and can also be aesthetically pleasing to the dom in the relationship. Paddles are a popular way to induce pain, and encourage submissiveness in bondage role-play while ticklers reward subs who play along. A slave can also be reminded of their subordinate role by having to wear Collars & Leashes.
With some bondage toys, a willing partner, and some creativity, bondage can easily be a part of your bedroom routine.
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