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Butt Plugs, Beads and Probes – Oh My!
I’m not exactly sure how to explain it, but the ass seems to be making a comeback! Did it start with J-Lo? Maybe it was the super-catchy song “Bootylicious” that got us all thinkin’ about the tushy—whatever the reason—butts seem to be on the forefront and this includes anal sex play as well. Sex toy makers have been busy keeping up with this surge in popularity and as a result have provided us with all kinds of treats for those looking to explore anal play. And since butt toys come in all shapes and sizes; you’re likely to find something to tickle your tushy whether you’ve been enjoying backdoor play for years or are venturing into truly un-chartered territory! As well, anal play is something that can be (and should be!) enjoyed by all sexes regardless your sexual orientation.
Before we get into all the hot things that you can do with anal toys, it’s only fair to make a little sense of all the options out there for those who are not butt product savvy just yet! Consider this your fast track to “Anal 101”…
Butt Plugs: These are designed to be inserted into the anus and create a feeling of fullness. They are shaped to ideally remain in place during play; often being flared at the end to control the depth and then tapered near the base which allows your sphincter to hold it tightly in place. They range in size from extra small to super-size and can be smooth or textured. The feeling of fullness that is achieved by an anal plug can be especially pleasurable during oral or vaginal sex—try pulling it out during orgasm for some extra umph!!
Anal Probes: These toys are just as their name states—used for probing the anus while maximizing pleasure. While also extremely pleasurable for women; anal probes can be especially erotic for men as they are a great way to stimulate the prostate. (In case you didn’t know, the prostate is pretty much the male equivalent of the G-spot) These come in short, long, thin, thick… you get the idea. While they are best compared to a dildo; what makes them ‘butt-specific’ is the shape as they are often designed with bumps and grooves that not only add to the sensation but also help to keep the toy from sliding too far into the rectum.
Anal Beads: These are surely the most common of the anal toys available likely because they are not only quite inexpensive but they are often also used vaginally. Anal beads are simply a series evenly spaced out beads on either a string or a stalk that are inserted into the anus (or vagina) and the pulled out slowly during climax to intensify the orgasm. The reason that this simple toy packs such a punch is because it causes your sphincter to open and close as each bead slips out—this sensation is already pleasurable on it’s own, but during an orgasm—watch out! Anal beads also range from really inexpensive plastic to slightly more expensive jelly and even steel. While the beads are always evenly spaced out; they may be on a string or a stalk with a loop at the end for easy gripping.
Keep in mind to that you can find vibrating plugs, probes and beads too! Va va voom!
Now that you’ve completed your crash course on anal products, we can get into the good stuff; how to use ‘em...
Venturing into the world of anal play whether alone or with a partner requires some patience because rushing will only lead to an unpleasant experience. This delicate area needs to be treated gently and quite frankly; approached cautiously to avoid scaring it into seclusion! Take things slow, be gentle and be aware of what your or your partner’s body is telling you. Take the time to get properly aroused before anal play as it will not only help to relax your muscles but also help to get the blood flowing which will make it super sensitive to pleasure. Tap the anus lightly with a finger and caress the area in order get it prepped for your toy of choice.
The next and one of the most important things needed when it comes to bum fun is lube—LOTS of lube!! We carry all kinds of great lubes for you to choose from, including some that specifically cater to anal sex. Make sure that you not only lube the area but the toy as well to ensure a smooth entry. When playing with a partner it’s a good idea to keep on top of the situation by asking if they need more lube as you go along.
Once you are ready to, er, get into things; stimulating another body part at the same time will not only feel amazing but will also help to keep you primed for backdoor action throughout the experience. Try holding a small vibrator to your clit or stroking your member while your mate slowly inserts the toy from behind. Watching an erotic movie can be incredibly arousing for some while their partner works away at pleasuring your backside. Tap the anus lightly with a finger and caress the area in order get it prepped for your toy of choice. Hey—use your tongue if you’re so inclined! Remember, this is not a race and the point of anal play is not to just get in there but rather to take your pleasure to a new level.
All of the same rules apply to removing the toy as well. Try to time it strategically so that you can pull the toy out during orgasm for a truly mind blowing experience. Pull it out slowly and carefully savoring each inch, slide, bump or ridge! Regardless of the type of toy you’re using; be sure to pull it straight out as opposed to angling it up or down. Removing the toy has the potential to be the most enjoyable part of the anal experience, so don’t rush!
Finally, keep hygiene in mind when playing out back. Due to an increased risk for bacteria transfer when playing anally, it’s important to not use the toy on another part of the body until it has been sanitized after being in the rectum. If you’re planning to share your toys they should be cleaned properly before passing them onto the next person or a new condom should be used over the toy for each person playing.
Before I send you off into the wonderful world of bum play, here are a few toy suggestions for my newbies as well as seasoned pros that are looking for an even greater experience:
Beginners: Vivid Essentials 6 Anal Starter, Sue Johanson Lock and Load Petite 3, Jelly Beans
For the Anal-Play Advanced: Vibrating Jelly Anal Beads Lg, Rotating Butt Plug, P-Spot Red
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